Do men shun single women with children, r they a turn off?

Answer 1

I think most guys over 30 are usually good with it - I mean once you reach a certain age you realize that its a possibilty that many women you meet your age will have a previous marriage and possibly children.

Answer 2

It all depends on the guy. Just like I know of some females that will not date guys that have kids with a previous person even if the do not have the children full time.

As for me I do not care to a point. I dont realy meet the kids until I am sure I like the mom. No need to put the kids thru the stress of meeting another male that is just not going to stick around.

My last recent relationship, she had a daughter 13 y/o. We complimented each other in every way. We loved each other and got married. Gaining the trust of her was not easy since she had been without a father figure for 13 years. We now have a good relationship the daughter and I.

I am taking care of her now since my wife was killed in a car accident. So when looking for a guy you need to make sure that if something happens to you he will follow thru and watch your kids grow.

I love "my" daughter as if she was biologically mine.

Answer 3

I have never had a problem and I have been single for 10 years. My current "Mr." I was SHOCKED he did not mind and actually like kids. Two teen age boys in the mix too!! He is fantastic with the boys!
I personally would think it would be a turn off. I mean most men out there do not take care of there own kids why would they want to take care of someone else's?

Answer 4

Some men do, others don't. Many factors come into play. If the man likes children, he won't be turned off by a single woman with children.

Answer 5

not all men. But if U have kids I don't think that the man should hang that over your head for certain things.Well it is not a turn off because my step daddy married my momma and their are two of us! Well if You are a respectable person then that will kind of reflect on how your kids will act. So just be u and then u will be okay!

Answer 6

no, not all men think a single mom w/kids are a turn off..those men that dont want a relationship with us just dont want the responsibility of a family..they just want what they want..nothing more..my last relationship was like that, he only wanted me and not my daughter.. sometimes being single is much happier, but, if you find the right person, he'll except the family...

Answer 7

I, personally, am not swayed by someone who has a child or children. I will date someone with kid/s if they seem like the right person for me and I like them. Some other people dont want a pre-fab family. Id say its gonna all be about what kind of person you are., and who you are looking for. Nothing can stop love, lol, not even kids.

Answer 8

i dont know --- i would have said yes 6 months ago --- but only because all of mine are grown

now well my lady has no children BUT does want a family -- so if we stay together then i will have more children

no ladies with children are not a turn off

Answer 9

I personally belive every man have there own preferance.... there are men who would rather not be with a single mother just like there are women who rather not be with a single father.

Answer 10

actually no... it's just a concern...
like it's not hard enough to have to impress the girl, no her children.
and sometimes children have a huge problem with new parents in their lives... it makes it harder on us to make everything work. Plus children might not like us, no matter what so then you eventually drift away, and then women with children become the last resort... sorta