I am clearly in love with my best friend and i dont know what to do. His wife and I are good friends. But it is clear they are not happily married. I never planed on this to happen and never thought i would be that person. One night we kissed and since then ( 8 months ago) it has escalated. The next day i recieved a red rose. about a month ago we kissed and he looked at me and asked when i last time igot a kiss like that was and then told e it had been 6 months for him. He cares about me that i know but what i dont know is to tell him how i feel or figure out what he feels. I care about him very mmuch and cant help getting ad at her for the way she treats him. PLEASE HELP!!!!! My heart is breaking and i dont know what to do .
2006-11-06 15:11:26 · 10 answers · asked by confusedbetween2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* He told me he hadnt kissed like that in 6 years. And he tells me everything with her happened too fast and tells e he is confused on what he feels. He saved y life about 7 onths ago and thats when it got serious. I need to find out the truth. HELP!!!!!
2006-11-06 15:14:31 · update #1
I don't think you should feel right about kissing a married man even if you knew him longer, no matter how crumby their marriage may seem that just doesn't justify it in anyway. It is the past so you have no choice but to change now.
Try telling him to stop with all this because it's bad karma. What goes around comes around, Cause n effect whatever word best describes this law of the Universe.
He is obviously confused and your not helping the matter but making it stickier then it really needs to be. You should both come clean with his wife and see what she says. She may leave him and you for good but atleast your not being a sneak. Don't teat others the way you wouldn't want to be treated.
2006-11-06 15:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen... NO do not do that what you already did stop doing it. You will hurt those who you love. IF he does to her he will do unto you what he did to her. So do you really love him or is it the fact that he is the forbiden meat!? It is proven females like males who are taken for that reason as a challenge and so on and so forth. SO seriously dont unless you believe he wont do it for you which I highly doubt what do you expect? Anyways if he isnt happy with her why arent they divorce thats all BS and you know it. So seperate your self from them and find a best friend else where that wont want to get into your pants thats not a best friend thats a lurker!
2006-11-06 23:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN for the hills. If he is having problems in his marriage, that is fine, but he is still married. If you and him are meant to be, it should happen AFTER he figures out what he wants to do and takes appropriate measures. There is seriouslly no excuse for messing around with a married man, even if it "breaks your heart" that he's unhappy. One thing I'll never, ever understand: if he leaves his current wife for you, what makes you think he won't leave you for someone else?
2006-11-06 23:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Paul T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating and you're co-cheating. How would you feel if someone was cheating with your husband? If you wouldn't like it, don't do it to someone else...
When you participate in a behavior, you automatically okay others to do it as well...somehow, I doubt very much you'd like what you are doing, to be done to you...
He's married...until such a time comes that he is no longer married, leave him alone...besides, it takes a lot of arrogance to think he'd cheat with you but not on you, if y'all were a couple...
If he's so unhappy, why is he still married? Does he or she tell you their marriage is bad? Does he or she tell you that she mistreats him? You said his wife and you are good friends...what a heck of a friend you are to be phuquing her husband...
2006-11-06 23:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be that as it may you have no right to any relationship with a married man especially if he is married to a good friend. It is a double disloyalty.
Break up with him and her. Don't give explanations and don't view yourself as a martyr or victim. You are neither if you do the right thing. However, if you do not there are some ugly words that could apply to a home wrecker.
2006-11-06 23:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think you deserve a man who would cheat on his wife? No honourable man would take those steps with another woman until they are at least separated.
2006-11-06 23:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by radiancia 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, you don't know what to do! You are wrecking a marriage and you don't know what to do. Get out, go away, move YOU ARE WRECKING A MARRIAGE! What goes around comes around, wait until its your turn and he cheats on YOU.
2006-11-06 23:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you were his wife? He's married. What kind of friend are you?
2006-11-06 23:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY. DANGER DANGER!! If he will cheat on his wife what make you think he wont do that to you :)
2006-11-06 23:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by LOVELY LADY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get over it find some1 new!lol jk
2006-11-06 23:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by m@ck 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋