ok;;im in loveee;; yea its true;; im young && in loveee;; get over itt i need helppp;
see he has a jamboree 2morrow for bball && myy exx bf plays on the opposite team that he plays;;
how should i handle the situation?????
&& myy bf wants a good luck kiss 2morrow;; we havent kissed yett; what do i do????
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2006-11-06 15:06:49 · 11 answers · asked by j<3dawg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u want to practice on me first?
2006-11-06 15:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
ok so your 14 and at this stage in your life everything is life or death. Trust me honey its not. Your ex boyfriend is just that your ex. It is time to grow up and show some maturity even at your age. Dont play games with boys. If this new guy is really your boyfriend then kissing him at an important event should not matter. Dont play him to make your ex jealous. Chances are he has moved on to someone else anyway snd his new girlfriend will be there too. There is nothing to worry over. Just move on.; As you get older you will realize this is not a big deal. Trust me life is too short for you to sweat the small stuff. Stay 14 and have fun with it. You are too young to be truely in love. In a month you will be in love all over again. So have fun while you can. Guys dont worry about it neither should you. Good Luck
2006-11-06 15:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I would say that a first kiss with a boyfriend is something special, and should be private. If he wants a good luck kiss, give him a hug and a kiss on the cheek.
Also be sensitive of the fact that your ex-boyfriend may see you. It is really hard to erase feelings from past relationships. Heck, whenever I see my first crush I still get a little flustered, and it's been YEARS. So I would try to not make your relationship a public display when your ex is around.
But also make sure your new boyfriend knows that you care for him, and you should wish him luck.
I hope this helps, and good luck!
2006-11-06 15:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you're 14. You think you're in love and you don't know what to do cuz your x-bf will be at a game where your current bf will be also. You are too young to be dating, kissing or anything else. If you continue to give yourself away then by the time you are old enough and meet the right guy, you will have given all of yourself away and not saved anything for him. Just think, girl. You can go to the game, smile, root for whatever team and just be a nice girl. ok?
2006-11-06 15:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss will lead to more. The wisest thing you can do is Wait!! You may feel old enough, but guys are mostly interested in one thing....esp. during high school . They know young girls THINK they really care for them and maybe one in 1000 really does.
Still it all leads to more touching, kissing and More. There is a time for that, but not 14. And no, I'm not a fuddy duddy. You don't want to end up on the Maury show!
2006-11-06 15:14:09 · answer #5 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gurrrrrrrrl, let me tell you. its okay. in my opinion you can find love anywhere. i was in love with this boy last year. he was a senior and i was fourteen. everytime we were together i felt like i could do so much in the world. now to answer the question. you say that your current boyfriend is one team and your ex is on the other team. well this question is kind of confusing but ill see what i can do. if your boyfriend wants a lucky kiss tomorrow then you should do it if your in love and feel comfortable. if you dont feel this way because your ex boyfriend is on the other team then do it when he isnt in the room. maybe that would make you feel better. hope this helps. bye.
2006-11-06 15:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by shanice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your in the power of ur life. You should pick what you want to do. Do you like the bf that wants to kiss you? What team will you cheer for? These are questions to consider. Hopefully you will pick the right decision. Remember you only got one shot at tomorrow.
2006-11-06 15:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by saddleclub_cowgirl145 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been throughthe same thing! omg but anyways! Just give your boyfriend a kiss let the past be the past and your exx bf will just have to deal with it! Uhave moved on and he should to!
2006-11-06 15:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax go up to your bf and give him a very sweet kiss on the lips. Your can also cheer for him. So, he will know to do his best.
2006-11-06 15:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to kiss him than go for it, but if you don't feel comfortable with it, then tell him that. If he really loves you than he will understand. It is good to keep your relationship pure and clean.
2006-11-06 15:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by dancinmonkey918 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you =[[[ ask;;ed questi...ons w/ l3ss of th353??? it wou;;d b easier 2 under;;stand. <3 =[[[ Try using english and easy on all the symbols, damn kids are murdering the english. Love should be the last thing on your mind when you write like th;;s.
2006-11-06 15:13:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋