I have a crush on this girl and I really want to talk to her. Thing is, im really crappy when it comes to talking to girls I like. I hate the akwardness and I can never seem to find the words that want to say making me look really stupid. Is there any way to avoid the akwardness and feel more comfortable talking to her?
I know this is the 3rd time asking, sorry if its getting annoying...
2006-11-06 14:42:29 · 17 answers · asked by touchdownmania1532 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell her that you like her. just go up to her and tell her that you feel kinda nervous but that you like her. i know it may sound crazy, but im a girl and i know that if someone liked me, i would want to know from them. and you have nothing to loose. even if she doesnt like you like that, she is not going to hate you for telling her how you feel. besides, once you tell her and just let everything out, the akwardness will go away and you will feel a LOT better
2006-11-06 14:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself...it's ok to be nervous. Stick to talking about things you know about. OR ask her questions about her last weekend, or coming up weekend, or something you know she likes. Questions are great because you're not only showing interest in her, you also get to do more listening than talking and that takes some of the pressure off. Just remember to breathe!! The more you talk to her, the easier it will get. Good luck!
2006-11-06 22:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by TexasGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her, you can avoid the actual eye contact and maybe just have a few phone conversations before you talk to her face to face, that should make things easier for you when you do finally face her. I think a lot of people are scared of that akwardnes and maybe she feels the same way.
2006-11-06 22:48:57 · answer #3 · answered by gypsilee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes there is! Get used to talking to A LOT of girls that you aren't trying to date. This will get you used to talking to the opposite sex and see how they think and react, and what they're interested in talking about. Once you get comfortable with this, it will be easier to talk to someone you want to get closer to. If you're still nervous and all you can think of is "I wanna get laid" you should probably jerk off first so you have that one problem out of the way.
2006-11-06 22:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Dude 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself. Guys dont look as dumb as you think when you stumble to find words. It is cute and flattering. Just think about what you are going to say before you say it. Maybe ask her what she likes to do. You will find your niche and relax. Have confidence in yourself. If she things you are dumb, she is a biotch and isn't worth your time. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 22:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say write her a letter, I know that sounds corny, but, you can't say the wrong thing in a LETTER AND YOU CAN KEEP GOING OVER IT and re write it to make it sound better AND IT WILL BREAK THE ICE AND SHE COULD COME UP TO YOU AND TALK TO YOU, THEN THINGS COULD GET EASIER. a LETTER IS A GREAT ICE- BREAKER.
2006-11-06 22:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some self confidence. Just say to yourself want have I got to loose. I haven't got her now so worst thing is after you still don't have her. Away you break the silence maybe she is good at talking.
Good Luck I've been there.
2006-11-06 22:48:36 · answer #7 · answered by teddybear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes in life u really got to be bold. if u know that it isn't ur thing then the next thing u know is that u r alone with 10 dogs. So be bold, if not then be confident i know that talking to people u like aren't easy, just say i am going to do it and then do it. remember she is just someone like you. she isn't special she is not going to kill you. just do it, say something... start by saying hi, then give her a nice compliment like '' u smell nice'' or '' u have beautiful eyes'' stuff like that u see it will get on and on and u'll see that she might like you. just be confident and, or bold
2006-11-06 22:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by *~butterfly~* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no avioding the akwardness, try pretending your an actor and it is a role you are playing it will get better, good luck
2006-11-06 22:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thers no way to avoid the awkwardness, but u might feel more comfortable talkn to her if u get to be a good friend with her first
2006-11-06 22:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋