is she happy? want her ex back?

Question

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

Answer 1

man you have asked this same question about 3 or 4 times.. she still obviously has feelings for him and he probably does for her but he is confused and doesnt know what to do with her yet...you shouldnt have got in a relationship with her when she is so not over her ex. you can never truely be happy with her and her with you until this happens. sorry man

Answer 2

I think she misses having him under her control. She sounds like the kind of girl that has to have everything done her way, right now, or she gets p1ssed off.

Get rid of her and find someone better.

For a rebound relationship, it could be anything up to 3 months. It really depends on the person, but once you notice things not being so new anymore, and things moving into a routine.... if she is not into you after the initial stages are over, she will never be. And she can't be that into you if she is focussing on other guys. Move on.

Answer 3

Yeah, that's unlucky. no longer for you notwithstanding yet for others who look to imagine that separations and divorces ought to ivolve bitterness and all round back stabbing hateful meandering. You and your ex have a outstanding association that, consequently can assist your babies develop into better effective properly adjusted adults. So shall we are hoping you 2 can shop it that way and by no skill enable the crass misinterpretations of what others and they are depressing lives attempt to intervene onto you. when you're chuffed and also you're chuffed that your ex is chuffed, then the mission is settled and there is not any elect for any outdoors interference. people will be so maligned that they need that each and every man or woman must be as unhappy as they're even as, in actuality, they're basically jealous those who will by no skill sense free with themselves till there is a few form of airborne dirt and mud to be spread round. So wager what? you've executed what few others will by no skill understand because they're souls are so distorted through negativity and envy. Kudos on your ex and your babies and maximum of prepared on your self for providing up a clean glimmer of wish and to exhibit the authentic that technique of what existence is all about. some thing that's sorely lacking from a international that seems to were led off song yet who's gentle is alive and properly from interior of your spirit and the existence you've chosen to guide.

Answer 4

i would get out of this relationship fast. i think you already know how this whole thing is going to end up, but you just need to hear it from other people. she is acting happy on the outside and wants him back on the inside. you were and still are a rebound relationship. she won't break up with you until she has a reason to because she doesn't want to be alone and reminded that she doesn't have him anymore. any normal girl would have given up months ago if the person they were trying to get ahold of never contacted them back. she wants him back. i'm sorry, but you'd be better off getting out now.

Answer 5

look leave her alone I have been with a guy 4 three years and I still miss this guy and we have been broke up for six or seven mon. and I still wait for him we talk but we have not got back together yet I love him and when it's been that long she still longs for him maybe you remind her of him so yes you are rebound and in the end you will be the one how gets hurts and you seem to nice for that !!!!

Answer 6

hey what happens with a new relation is that a person a boy or a girl shift to other person becouse he /she always feel that she was not comfortable with you and the second is better .. but the more and more you know a people the negatives started coming before you and starts dislike also.. so she must be got hurt by the second one thats why she is coming back,... but remember she will again run.....hahaha

Answer 7

I think she just needs closeure now, hes not answering her and thats really bugging her that he has the upper hand now since she broke up with him, tell her she needs to let the past go if she really wants a future with you. Good luck hun!

Answer 8

this seems like something that is bothering you because you took the time out and wrote all of this. Well in my opinion i think she wants him back but don't want to tell you because she is afraid you will leave her and then she wouldn't have anyone. Sorry but that's the truth. you need to confront her and see what she has to say.

Answer 9

when ur in a relasionship that long u get certin feelings for each other and when one does something like break up with the other ur heart breaks. she is just trying to make sure that he's ok and that he didn't do something stupid like hurt himself.

Answer 10

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