I have been with this man for 3months now and we have been together alot and now he wants space and acted really crazy then he asked to see me today .how can i tell if he is really in love with me because he told he i could be the one!
2006-11-06 14:37:22 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yse he is not had a committment in years and now one week dose and a nother he tells me no. I know he cares about me and i really really care for him. DO i give him more space ?
2006-11-06 14:43:44 · update #1
He needs space to think and then acts like he dose not need space
2006-11-06 14:45:04 · update #2
ok i need a man over 40 to tell me why do men need space after seening a woman for 3months and things are good then tell the woman he needs space ! why is he thinking he is in to deep !one week he dose not want me to leave him the next give me space!
2006-11-06 14:53:09 · update #3
Thank you all answering my question!
I dont want to lose him! today he asked to see me and i asked why he told me he wanted to see how i was doing? I dont get this i just know we do care about eacher alot and i dont want him to run!
2006-11-06 14:58:21 · update #4
Whether you have dated for 3 months or been married for 20 years men always need space. Women are typically better at dealing with all facets of life while men need to sit and think about things one at a time... That is why we have dens, entertainment rooms, or the garage... you can have the rest of the house, just give us our place to go and figure things out... Not to mention the fact that when we want you around we can't get enough of you and then when we want to be alone, the mere sound of your voice can irritate us... Men, we do the best we can, and we LOVE you through all of our insecurities...
2006-11-06 14:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it must be a normal thing for guys.
They tend to want their own space just to be themselves again and have a little break every now and then. I'm sure there are girls like that out there too. He might feel that he is seeing you so much that he is missing out on his own time, and missing out on seeing his other friends.
Then when he is away from you, he remembers how he feels about you, then wants to see you again.
I wouldn't worry about it. If you are seeing him everyday, maybe you should set aside one day out of the week, and I mean a different day each week so you don't get into a routine, and just do your own thing. He has a day with his guy friends, and you hang out with your girl friends.
That way you will also do separate things, and you will have more things to talk about when you see each other next.
2006-11-06 14:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some issues with committment, which could either mean he has someone else, or feels he can keep his options open and that you will be there. As hurtful as it sounds, you can do better. If you really matter to him, he will come back. Otherwise, talk is cheap. Until his actions can back up his words, find some other interests. You are worth it!
2006-11-06 14:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by linnie20022000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases, getting back, in order to get a "breather" will allow some people to really "think" and "feel" how they can handle the absence of the significant other.Thus giving him, or her "Space" helps to prove the old saying that; absence makes the heart grow fonder. (unquote) So, now perhaps your b/f has found that his life feels void without you, Like some fellas find that they don`t function so well w/out their girl around, Perhaps this is why He wants to see You now.
2006-11-06 15:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men are afraid of responsibility, and they feel that if the relationship gets too serious, they might be obligated to marry. While some say that they need space which gives them the time to see other women.
2006-11-06 14:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Seeanna 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They need space because once you get too close they get scared..they are more afraid then we are..believe it or not..he is probably trying to figure out his feelings and nows that you and he are starting to get really into each other..he's probably afraid to be attached but at the same time he knows he loves you..my ex told me that one not to long ago.
2006-11-06 14:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Deb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he needs "space"...is he fearful of committment or checking out something on the side...
If you are serious about him, then y'all have to be able to communicate...he's the only one that can tell you what's going on in his head...
2006-11-06 14:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 months? I doubt love is there yet. Maybe puppy love, but not real love. If you are young (teen maybe) then allow yourself and him to make totally and profound mistakes. Don't sweat the small stuff! Mistakes will happen.
2006-11-06 14:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy are a little crazy when they are in love well i get like that he asked to see you it means he didn't really mean what he said about needing space just give him time it like its his time of the month we all get like that (men) but we don't like to admit it
2006-11-06 14:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by FallenFreak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Space is a mans word for I need to sleep with somebody else but maybe he wants to do that befor commiting to anyone at least he is cluing you in!!
2006-11-06 14:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by snaggles 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋