Is it a good upbringing or is something wrong with her??

Question

I have been seeing this girl for about three weeks now. I have yet to have sex with her. I've been trying every since day one. What gives?? This is the longest I have ever had to wait!!! We make out and crap, but no happy ending :(
Is it because she is a "good" girl or should I start worrying if she has something hide? (like herpes, aids, or a penis)

Answer 1

ask her my dear

Answer 2

She may be the kind of person who will "make out" but is not ready to go further and have sex just yet. She may like how things are now and may feel that if she were to give in because you are ready that the relationship that you have now will not last as long or will not be as good as it is now. For some people 3 weeks is still a little early. It totally depends on the person and possibly how her past relationships have been.

Talk to her and see what her feelings towards the subject is .(sex) What have you to loose in asking? Go for it..

Answer 3

It may be because she respects her body. Did you ever stop to think that maybe you are only hanging in there because you want the booty? Is that your only reason for dating her for 3 wks? Maybe she's afraid that after you two do it, you'll drop like a bad habit.

Good upbringing has nothing to do with putting out or not putting out. Stop thinking with your penis and grow up. If you aren't happy with where your relationship is going then you need to cut her loose and find some other girl that doesn't give a crap about herself.
It sounds like the girl you are with knows your reputation and doesn't want to be a notch in your bedpost.

Answer 4

It is called some people have self respect and don't go having sex with people only 3 WEEKS into a relationship.

Maybe she IS abstinent or something

I doubt she has a VD or a PENIS

Dont be so critical

Just wait for the right time

And until then, it is U + UR HAND

And if you want to rush sex

Than it wil always be

Sorry to say ...

Good luck though

Answer 5

Wow, is this really the first relationship you have ever had with a women in which, you always had sex with before the third week? Have you only dated tramps? Is this the first lady you have ever dated? Perhaps she likes to get to really know a person , or fall in love, before taking off her pants, [too old fashioned for you?]. Takes more than 3 weeks to get to know someone.And why have you been trying since the first date? No patience, or you just go out with women to get in their pants? Maybe she is waiting because you might have herpies,aids, or a small penis.

Answer 6

i don't think she has anything to hide. maybe she's a virgin, you men worry to much about sex. what happens when she gives in are you gonna dump her right away. you can't compare all the girls you go out with, were all different. I'd worry about her personality, and if you have a good time with her. sex will come and if it's a big deal for you ask her why. 3 weeks isn't long enough to get to know anybody.

Answer 7

Wow, you poor boy having to wait 3 whole weeks! Why should she have sex with you?

Have you tried asking her what she feels is the right time for you 2 to have sex? She can give you a better answer than anyone here.

Answer 8

Gee, perhaps she has morals and doesn't feel like putting out so soon. Or she's annoyed with you for trying so hard since the first day! I would suggest laying off the pressure and maybe talking with her about it. And if I were her, I'd wonder if you guys did have sex and she'd never see you again. No offense, but it seems like that is all you are after.

Answer 9

Maybe you should find someone who thinks like you do.
A happy ending, to me, means a guy who after three weeks respects me enough not to push 'sex' on me. Respect, respect, respect.
You may be too forcefull a character for her (intimidating) and is actually respecting herself by not bending to your (what may be quiet) demands for more.
There'll be 'happy endings' out there for you. Leave her alone.
Girls usually respond to guys who respect (there's that word again) them.
Just watch out for the 'quick happy endings' - they may result in herpes, aids etc, etc..
If you really want i nice girl, back off a bit.

Answer 10

3 weeks is not a long time. Maybe she is a girl with good moral values who wants to be certain of the relationship before taking it to the next level. Be patient...she may be well worth the wait

Answer 11

Um..she probably is a good girl. And by the sounds of it you should probably get some help. You shouldn't have sex as a major part of a happy relationship.