I'm dating a new guy and he is awesome! One little thing though he is not the worlds best kisser and when he kisses he opens his mouth really wide? What can I do or offer to make it a more pleasurable experience for both of us? Any suggestions?
2006-11-06 13:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello,
First off I would say to wait a little while before taking any action. If the relationship is new than saying anything might really offend him. Or embarrass him. If you do really like him, and it sounds like you do, I would wait.
When you do decide to talk to him make sure you first mention what you like about him, or compliment him on something else he does that makes you feel good.
Then when you guys start kissing, softly mention what you would like him to do. You could say something like "Hey will you try this...."
If he's a good guy he'll want to make the effort to make you happy, and to make the experience as good for you as it is for him.
I hope this helps, and good luck.
2006-11-06 13:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That SO sucks!! I know what you mean.
Other than avoid kissing altogether, I find that this works -
1) you start to kiss him, but put your hands on either side of his face -- for whatever reason, this kinda makes YOU the kisser.
2) don't tongue (hence the open mouth)...small kisses
3) or, you could just tell him, but this never worked for me.
Kissing is really important. If he ruins it, it can ruin a relationship.
2006-11-06 21:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy: The Angry Typer a/k/a Mood Mole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just show him how you like to be kissed. jus going along with the ride, is false. what if it got back to him how you truly feel about the way he kisses. tell him before someone else does.maybe he doesnt know he is engulfing your face when you kiss. be honest so it can be jsut as enjoyable for the both of you.
2006-11-06 21:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with pecks (little closed mouth kisses). Or be a dork and kiss around his mouth (that's me though). Or just plain french him. lol If all else fails talk with him about it.
2006-11-06 21:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by pirate prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start your own way you like. When he realize it and have pleasure then he will also do the same.
2006-11-06 21:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him with a little wink that his kissing could improve and that you are perfectly willing to practice and help him..... :)
2006-11-06 21:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him not to kiss back and just let you kiss him for a minute and see if he likes it and go from there
2006-11-06 21:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by katie a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold his face and give him a lesson on kissing...That should do the trick.
2006-11-06 21:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open your mouth REALLY small
2006-11-06 21:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋