i really like this guy but i know he doesn't like me!!!!! i want to have a boyfriend that i could hug and smooch but i'm not that desperate for a real ugly guy...what should i do?
2006-11-06 13:32:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take a few breaths and relax. It sounds like you are being a little irrational and as you said "desperate". When you are in this condition it is never good to go looking for a guy just for the hell of it. Just calm down and spend some time talking to this guy that you like and see if he has the same feelings for you too.
2006-11-06 13:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hey dont worry I used to like this boy and I was so scared to tell him and I was like mad nervous to even talk to him b/c I never knew what could make him mad ( b/c sometimes I say things that just make people go like "OMG") but no find a place/time that you two are alone and tell him how you feel if he doesnt feel the same way you two could just remain friends and dont worry one day not too long you will find some one that you can do all that stuff with, i finally found mine! And like I was saying if he doesnt feel the same way for you just let it go it might take a while, I know trust me, but let it go and move on you'll figure out soon enough that mr.right was waiting for you all along!
2006-11-06 21:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by brazilianchick61 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By chance show up at the same restaurant, club, movies etc and ignore him. Dress attractive as I'm sure you already do, and ignore him after you're sure he has seen you. Acknowledge with a nod if you happen to make eye contact but that's it. Do not approach him and make it like your having fun. It will trigger his curiosity and when you play a little hard to get and not desperate you will grab his attention on your terms. Good luck
2006-11-06 21:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by Octavia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!! If he doesn't like you, he obviously isn't the one for you. Face it, every girl wants a guy to hold her, love her and call her beautiful, we've all been there. But some people just have to wait, I've only had one bf and I'm 17 and it lasted for a month. I was so desperate to have a guy, I ended up getting hurt in the end. Don't put yourself in harm's way just for a temporary love.
2006-11-06 21:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get over your desperation for a guy...not only is it completely unappealing but it's sad too...be happy with you...it's okay to be single and until you're happy with who you are and your life as a solo, you won't make a good partner for someone else...neediness doesn't translate into someone that's a good mate...
2006-11-06 21:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey you need to love yourself before you can love anyone else. Looks shouldn't matter anyway. It's what a person has in their heart.
2006-11-06 21:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by ladyrebel4real 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol amanda amanda amanda, chill hun go out by a thong feel good about yourself, if you take good care of yourself you will find a hot guy.
2006-11-06 21:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to http://www.awolnow.com and go up to guys and say your hot or hey hottie, it works I got 5 e-mail addresses off of it.
trust me on this. about100 people have mine and that inclues girl s to talk about our boys.
2006-11-06 21:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try looking at other guys, too. Maybe you'll find the right one. =]
2006-11-06 21:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a big teddy bear pillow
2006-11-06 21:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋