i'm an exchange student. any tips on being a lovely one for the host family and the kids around in school.
also, my host family is saying that they feel that i have a drastic different view of the world and things that happend and its a drag on them and they dont want the kind of pressure at home. what should i do?
2006-11-06 13:25:54 · 5 answers · asked by eric y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, it sounds to me if this family doesn't want you there at all because I think it's very rude of them to tell you straight in your face they don't like the drag and pressure your staying will put on them. And you, on the other hand sound like a very kind, considerate type of person. The bad news is I don't think the situation is going to change. People like that are naturally unapproachable, distrusting and mean spirited. So it would have been best if you could find another place to stay.
But if you can't, the good news is you don't have to be their friend. And this particular family does not sound to me worth the effort!. As long as you pay for your stay and you keep your surroundings tidy, I would suggest that you keep a polite distance from them. Don't let them drag you into arguments, and try to keep your opinions for yourself if it offends them so much.
About the kids at school, just be your charming self and don't worry too much. Normally kids are eager to befriend newcomers. So, enjoy the attention and make your pick for a best friend! And if your path cross those of some bullies, just ignore them like stop signs. They will get bored and move on to their next victim. Hope it helps a bit. And good luck!
2006-11-06 17:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by ina W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initiate via entering into touch with the organisation this is putting this up. What training can they supply you appropriate to the country you're traveling? What are you able to learn on the library? i'm sorry you probably did no longer say what usa. many human beings have traveled and lived in different worldwide places and that could supply you first hand training. additionally - are you able to write or e mail - or telephone your hosts? Introduce your self. learn the names of the kin? What are they inquisitive approximately? Are there toddlers your age? What are some exciting American issues you could deliver as residing house presents? American meals - song or video games which at the instant are not violent or pornographic that are everyday right here. i'm hoping you upload info to this question so human beings can help you out.
2016-10-21 09:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by harte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew of an exchange student who went back home because his host family weren't understanding of his culture/habits.
Do you feel like they are being insensitive to you or offended by your Asian culture? if you are a polite person and not causing problems, I can't see why you can't voice your opinion but if this is not acceptable to them then don't voice opinions that clash with theirs ... if it's difficult being with them - then perhaps you should go back home
2006-11-06 13:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your advisor if you can possibly change host familys. I think its possible if the two of you clash. Good Luck
2006-11-06 13:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your host family, ask them what they can do to help you change. Show them you want to change and be sincere!
2006-11-06 13:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋