I like this guy named Anthony. He is bisexual. Is it wrong for me to like him? I'm his friend and Hang out with him. I talk to him a lot. I'm afraid to tell him cause it would be kinda wierd sitting near him if he knows I like him. I mean what if he stopped talking to me. I took the first step, my friend told him that she thinks I like him. OK we lied just a bit. She knew I liked him. What should I do. I'm sick of people telling me that I should tell him!!! I mean do you have any idea about how hard that would be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOD WILL SOMEONE HELP ME!!!
Oh and help me out here. Old bf moved to Virginia. I slipped into a suicidal state of depression. I came out of the depression and felt SOOOOOOOO much better. I felt like I had my life back. Well for absolutely no reason at all I'm slipping back into depression again. what do I do to get out of this I am so mental right now. I'm afraid I'm going to hit the suicidal stage again. PLEASE help me.
2006-11-06 13:21:02 · 13 answers · asked by macluvzlabs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THIS IS GOD!!! IF HE LIKED YOU HE WOULD HAVE MADE A MOVE!!! MOVE ON AND GO WITH THE GY WHO LOOKS AT YOU FUNNY IN CLASS. HE'S THE NEXT BILL GATES!!!
2006-11-06 13:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, about your depression, is it under control - I mean are you seeing a doctor for therapy/do you have medication? My sister and boyfriend both suffer from this and both experienced an improvement after they went for help.
Secondly, it's not wrong for you to like this boy, it doesn't matter if he's bisexual or not. I'm bi and have a perfectly healthy and monogomous relationship with my boyfriend.
On telling him how you feel, how did he react to your friend telling him you like him? Favourably or neutrally? If it was more neutral he probably just sees you as his friend. You could probably broach the subject with him, but be prepared for any answer. If you handle it well (i.e. I know we're friends and I don't want to ruin that, but I'm experienceing feelings for you at the moment, how do you feel?) Tell him you can accept it if he just wants to be friends as his friendship is important to you and you wouldn't want to lose that.
It's natural to develop feelings for our friends that sometimes cross boundaries. I've been through phases with my friends too, and some of them have with me, but I think if you are truly friends your friendship should be able to withstand this.
Lastly, PLEASE don't do anything stupid, there are people out there who care about you even if you don't know it. Talk to someone, even if you have to ring a helpline. Sometimes a friendly ear can make all the difference and help with perspective.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 13:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as for your friend, at least show some kind of interest in him and his likes. Odds are, if he feels the same about you, he will retaliate. As for the suicidal depression, I suggest you pray. Or ask someone to pray for you (it works better if you ask God yourself), admit to Him that you're suicidal and that you have a problem. Pray for recovery and continue to try and walk out of it. If you truly believe that God can and will help you, He will and you will get through it, I promise.
2006-11-06 13:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you really need someone to talk to and you do not have to tell him if you don't want to do what makes you feel good and maybe you need to see a doctor about the reacurring depression, that is not something that you should play with you could do something that you can not turn back from.
2006-11-06 13:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by twinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really asked two questions. As to the first, if he swings either way, then tell him you care about him. As to the second concerning your reoccurring depression, there are clinics that you can go to and receive confidential help. Look into these, some are into minimal charges.
2006-11-06 13:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me! all u gotta say is the truth.. mayb the truth will help you.. i m telling u frm experience.. its better to knw the truth rather than wander in darkness, without any light.. i want u to askhim becasue tht is the only way to knw the truth.. maybe he's not bisexual after all and mayb he will b able to come out of this mentality.. jus believe in urself.. trust me ! a boy wudn't quit friendship with a girl just cuz he doesn't like her in that sort of way... only girls do that .. believe it or not. alrite so gud luk !! jus give it a try! its worth it ..
2006-11-06 13:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, calm down and take a deep breath.
Issue one: If he was going to ask you out he would have by now. That doesn't mean he doesn't want to go out with you, it means he's not going to ask you. If you don't want to ask him then you are going to miss the opportunity.
Issue two: You are fretting about things not in your control. You need to calm down and find things to take up your free time. Things that will keep your mind busy so you won't think about doing anything bad to yourself.
2006-11-06 13:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by phatcatrun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u really need to tell him. i mean ya, he might now, and he might not like u back but atleast u got it out of your system and u no if he does or if he doesnt and u wont have to sit there wondering if he does or doesnt
2006-11-06 13:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to the gay dude you like I know he is bi but i look at it as you cant be half gay either your gay or you arent but talk to him maybe he will pull you out of your depression
2006-11-06 13:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first suicide is a permanet solution to a temperarory problem .........it aint worth it....and if u kill urself how are u supposed to meet me.... :) ;) .........
as for the relationship i dont know what to tell u
2006-11-06 13:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋