This jerk of a guy decided to steal one of me and my friend's note which contained who I like. Well, now he knows and plans to tell my crush everything just for his own pleasure. My crush has 3 of my classes and sits close by me in all of them. So tomorrow, I'm sure he'll say something. Good or bad, I don't know. What should I do?
2006-11-06 13:20:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...today when I walked in to my first class of the day where the jerk and my crush. Unforunately, I tried to find both the jerk and my crush this morning but couldn't find them. So anyway...the jerk waited until I sat down and got my stuff out to say to my crush "Guess what. I know someone who likes you! It's her!" Now how cruel is that!?! My crush didn't say anything for the rest of the class. Totally akward. My friends say that the jerk is just jealous of me liking someone else. He ended up telling almost everyone who happened to be in the same class. I tried to follow your advice by never got the chance. The jerk basically did everything for me. But thanks A LOT!!! You guys really did help me. Thanks!! :D
2006-11-07 12:06:30 · update #1
Well, if he says something Good then the jerk saved you the hassle of doing it yourself.
if he says something Bad then you know he doesn't like you and again you were just saved the effort of doing it yourself.
Technically it's a win-win situation, cause you don't have to do it yourself and it might turn out that he likes you back. The only losing part is he may not like you, but then you can crush on some other guy instead.
or if you REALLY don't want this to happen, even though it's probably good, then plead with the guy who decided to steal the note. If he doesn't give it back then hope for the best.
Sincerely,
Ezekiel
2006-11-06 13:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ezekiel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. This happened to me as well back when I was in school. If you talk to your crush as a friend right now. I would say get a hold of him asap and tell him you like him. Also, let him know what was said. If that's possible without saying to much. Because guys sometimes like to blow things out of portion just like some females do. So, just let him know but , also let him know you wish for his friendship more than anything. Me and my old crush are best friends til this day. I still care about him but, being his friends is better than not having him in my life at all.
2006-11-06 21:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
write your crush a note telling him how you feel if you dont want to just be open and say it right to him. and alkso in the note include that if he doesnt like you back its ok, but you still want to be friends. at least you can have that. and if he does like you back...then great!! but i have given a few guys this year that same note and they all reacted just fine to it. i have gotten some of those notes too. just let him know how u feel and that he doesnt have to like you back. but if you want to say it to him in the open,(idk what his name is so lets just call him bobby) i would say something along the lines of "bobby, i need to tell you something and if you dont feel the same then that ok. i really like you" or when someones making a comment on them about the way the look or dress make a comment like "hes hot" or just something simple like that. and if he goes with that smoothly then little by little flirt with him. it should work. but anyway, good luck with your crush!!!
2006-11-06 21:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it as it comes..... denying it will be the worst thing you can do because he has proof. Maybe he won't tell your crush? You never know. Maybe you should tell your crush how you feel before he finds it out from someone else!!
2006-11-06 21:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by EmnEm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, I think every girl has been there. He'll probably be flattered, and probably will be embrassed as much as you are to talk about it. Plus you never know he might like you too, so it might give him the confidence to ask you out. Good luck!
2006-11-06 21:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by viennagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, do you know exactly what the note had said?
Secondly, if you are sure he will say something, you may want to practice what you may say back in the mirror or something. Just relax.
2006-11-06 21:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point all you can do is wait to see the reaction. At least you'll know now if he feels the same. Just play it cool and be prepared to brace the unexpected.
2006-11-06 21:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Aestial 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
beat the guy up and if that dont work then flirt with ur crush and then make ur move
find out if he likes you bak first so u kno u aint wastin yo time though
hope this helps!!
2006-11-06 21:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Luis_F_R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him first, he will like that your confident enough to step up and make the first move, if he doesn't, girl, there's plenty of guys out there that will.
2006-11-06 21:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Perfectly Insane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends.....does your crush hate u, doesn't notice u, talks with u, etc....if he's nice to u, go for it, and tell him before the jerky dude does!!!! go get him girl! if u're crush hates u, don't say anything, act like u don't care, keep your chin up and make sure u're crush sees u laughing, like u don't have a care in the world :)
2006-11-06 21:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by casper??!! :P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋