Based on my personal experiences, and from what other guys have told me, it seems to me that many girls when they are in High School go for the older guys, and the "bad-boy" types. When these girls leave high school and enter college, the first few years, they seem to change this and go for guys their age (but still go for the "bad boy" type) and start viewing many older guys (even if they are only a year older than themselves) as "creepy". Then as they near the end of their time in college and leave college (undergrad school), they seem to mature and go for guys who are not the bad-boy type but more of the caring, sensitive, and intellectual type. At this point, many girls also seem to go for and or marry younger guys who have a high maturity level and give them attention that many guys their age or older don't give them. As I said earlier, I have come to this based on what I have seen and heard. I'am not saying at all that I'am right, and if I'am not, please tell me the real deal.
2006-11-06 13:13:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah I think you're pretty well on the money - just as a generalisation and not true for all girls and women (I dated sweet nerdy chess clubs types in high school and rejected all the bad boys).
2006-11-06 13:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases yes inothers no. First off most girls are tramatised of the whole 'you'll date a man like ur dad' statement and go for something as far as possible from that. I personally like a guy who'll hang out with me and knwo the right time to sweet talk/ snuggle me. And the thought of changing a 'bad boy' to a romantic is really appealing.
2006-11-06 13:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by pirate prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that for most girls, you're definitely right, although I'm only high school-aged and wouldn't really know. I'm attracted to older guys, sure, but for an actual relationship, I believe that any guy that has graduated high school is in a completely different place than I am, emotionally and physically. So I wouldn't really date any guys that are more than 2 years older than I am, but for many of my friends and classmates, you are dead on.
2006-11-06 14:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by CherryPie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never really answer a question like this with a blanket "yes" or "no". You've got a bit of truth there, in my personal experience. I used to have a thing for bad boys. I wanted the boyfriend that got everyone's attention; attention is a big thing in middle/high school.
2006-11-06 13:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Alecto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 20:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never gone for the bad boys or older type. I'm in my last year of middle school and has always liked the sensitive shy caring type that are peaceful and in my grade. thats just a stereotype
2006-11-06 13:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Katie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sometimes the case. some/a good amount of High School Girls do go fo rthe "bad boy" type, I havent really understand why- I gues they just dont want boring- they want cool, I guess if your going out with someone who is "bad" then you are cool or something like that. I never really found the "bad boy" type appealing. =)
2006-11-06 13:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager I went for an older bad boy type but I married him and he turned in to a good boy so my progression ended there.
2006-11-06 13:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I live in San Diego too!!! And what you said is probably true, for me I just go for older men but not the bad-boy type, and I am not in high school, but next year I will be!!!
2006-11-06 13:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In highschool yes I went for older guys, but now I am 25 and am with someone 4 years younger. I am super happy, but sometimes I think we are at different areas in life and I am just wasting my time. If we work out great, but I think at times if I would have just stayed with my ex whom was my age, we would be married right now
2006-11-06 13:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋