Are there guys out there my age who wouldnt mind being with a pregnant girl? SOME1 PLZ HELP!!?

Question

Im 18 years old and Im 9 months pregnant. I am having a hard time finding someone. Am I wrong? Should I just wait untill later? I just dont know!!!!! SOME ONE PLZ PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i aint lookin 4 a relatoinship type thing just some1 to be there but all the girls act like im a whore 4 bein pregnant an most guys wont even say a thing cuz they think i wanna get wit them!!!!

and i think that its stupid that ppl say "oh ur a huge pregnant teenager and u wonder y no1 is interested" so wat every guy who gets a girl pregnant should leave them cuz they got big? thats the kind of thing im talkin about. and all ppl r like that where im from. and some guys talk 2 u just cuz if u do "do things" they dont have to worry bout u gettin pregnant. all i want 2 kno is y cant a girl have a guy as just a friend?

Answer 1

You don't need to find someone when you are pregnant although it might be helpful to have someone on your side. Let a guy come to you. Don't find them. Be independent =) Congratulations btw. Take care of yourself

Answer 2

I'm sure you feel very lonely and slightly scared about your future, but worry about finding a relationship later. You need to be planning for your child's birth and infancy. The best advice I can give you is this- get your own life in order (education, career, housing, parenting skills) and a good relationship will follow. You aren't going to have the time or energy to give a new relationship the attention it deserves for a while. If you need companionship, try to find a support group for new moms or a playgroup. Good luck and congrats on your blessing.

Answer 3

I think that since your nine months pregant you should just wait a mintue. I understand that no one wants to be alone, but sweetie trust me once that baby is in your arms you really won't have time for a man. especially if you plan on going to college or work. I believe that once your baby about 6 months and you get your life on track again then love or a man will find you.

Answer 4

Now, is not the time to be searching for a partner. Your emotions are hormone driven due to the pregnancy. Give birth, let the hormones settle, then start to join groups, the gym, church groups. Eventually just the right guy will come along.

Answer 5

good guy! look each and each of them up in 10 years. those are the those that spend their entire existence courting a sparkling guy each and every 2 weeks. 2 weeks is often the cut back earlier their boyfriends get drained and sell off them. Thank their fool mum and dad for the shortcoming of steerage. with out the recommendations, the physique is valueless.

Answer 6

Sorry, hon, you should have "waited until later" about 9 mo. ago.

You're 18, an adult, and have way too much on your plate emotionally and physically right now to be even thinking about a new mate.......grow up, or your child will be more mature than YOU!!

Answer 7

if you dont mind being in an open relationship, basically, i would take you out for a nice night once a month, then date other people at the same time, thats the only way

Answer 8

I'm guessing that urge is what got you in trouble to begin with
Unless you are giving you baby to adoption, you should concentrate in him, and forget dating for a while, is not a game, you know?

Answer 9

wait till the baby is born and don't tell them that you have a baby! But what you really need is your mom or aunt or any family member basically (that you are close with of course)

Answer 10

this isn't the best or safest way hun, at all, u should get out with ur frineds i know ui don't want to be alone, but not this way pleasse be careful, if not for u, for your baby's future.