type thing I would'nt be concerned. but since he has a 1st grade reading ability ( he is 24) he had asked me to read to him some text messages she has sent. like " I am all wet for you" I am lying here in bed naked" and you can have it if you want it, i know you want it." any way you get the message. I asked him what is gong on? he said that she lives with her boyfriend at his parents home, and he is confused, i told him to be very careful since all three work at the same place, she and her boyfriend have only been there for about 3 mouths my son has worked there for 4 years. what do i do? i don't want to be overprotected parent but i do want to be there for him.
2006-11-06 13:03:02 · 8 answers · asked by Diana J 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your son that he has to be careful about the people he talks to and becomes friends with. Let him know that you don't think this particular female is the kind of person he should become friends with and you're only telling him this because you love him very much and don't want him to be hurt. Also, he needs to tell this girl to please stop sending him messages.
Unfortunately I have a feeling this girl just wants somebody she can tease and embarrass. She is definitely not a classy lady.
2006-11-06 13:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one but, I would suggest that you somehow convince him (or her) to stop talking to each other outside of work. He could be in big trouble if this continues and her boyfriend finds out. You may also want to talk to his boss with your concerns. I know you dont want to meddle with his life but, if he has the mind of a child then he needs your guidance. But, before you talk to his boss I would make sure you have tried everything else first. If you are the one typing to her I would even try to sneak things in there that would get her to back off, like when she says that you can say back I thought we were just friends or things like that. Get creative with it. Good luck
2006-11-06 21:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so so sorry. You are in a bad position. I would try to explain to your son why to stay away from this women and that his job is way more important than any women. Ask him if he is dating this women because if not she is harassing him and you can then have it stopped by even contacting the boss. I am so sorry I am not sure what else to say I feel really bad because there isn't much you can do!
2006-11-06 21:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Frogger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds like she is making fun of him for some hideous reason. He sounds innocent and trusting and she sounds immature and evil. Maybe either call her or talk to the manager of the store. You don't want your son losing his job over some situation she is conjuring up.
2006-11-06 21:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a talk with the chic. She knows EXACTLY what she is doing and it is wrong! If that does not work talk to your son's boss...this is called sexual harassment!!!!
2006-11-06 21:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Making Them Listen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you will be overprotected, because that would mean someone is protecting YOU too much.
2006-11-06 21:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably trying to seduce him for money or some other form of joke.
2006-11-06 21:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Black Sabbath 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, retards need love too!
2006-11-06 21:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Pervie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋