I can't figure myself out...and this is not a "do I love him" question.?

Question

My beau and I told each other that we love one another. He tells me that he loves me somewhat frequently; sometimes I tell him the same. Only after he leaves the house do I find that I miss him so much and that I love him even more (this happens a lot). Yes, we are together and he's also my first bf, too...I am somewhat confused. Can anyone help? Any opinion is greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

maybe you are afraid to let him know how you feel. since this is your first bf you probably don't know how to express your true feelings. just hang in there and things will come to you..when it feels right deep inside the words will come out..

Answer 2

I don't get the question? Do you want to miss him more? Or do you not want to miss him when he leaves you? Do you want him to say "I love you" more often? Or do you think you should?

Answer 3

First love is always intoxicating and addictive.
Just enjoy it and go with the flow. Bless your little heart ;)

Answer 4

their isnt really anything anyone can tell you to help you maybe you really love him..it happens you know...and missing him when he leaves...thats common..happens with me..and im inlove....but you will get used to it...youll be fine...but when they leave it feels like your heart is breaking doesnt it??? but its not...just do like i do...find something that reminds you of him...hold it..wear it..or think about it..and it helps...then call him later..but not right as he leaves thats obsessive...goodluck...ash

Answer 5

help you on what? what are you confuse about? you're in love. does that answer your question?

Answer 6

you need to get a life