My friend and I are both 14 and she wants to know what guys look for.She's not fat but she's not skinny either. Does weight really matter?
2006-11-06 12:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Joy and happiness are the most beautiful and attractive features a woman can have. A fit woman is often happy but not always. Just as a heavy woman is not always sad. Be yourself and learn to love yourself and others will love you as well.
2006-11-06 13:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight matters. Guys first notice looks. That will just bring them over. But what will keep them is confidence, sweetness, smiles, and just a fun person to be around. I am the girl that has always had tons of guy friends and always had a boyfriend and I feel that I know men pretty well. Weight matters not just for aesthetic reasons, but it also indicates if a person has enough pride in themselves to take care of themselves and their health. Seriously, guys are messy slobs that can't hold it together sometimes and need a woman who is put together so that she can inspire him to be good too... a guy likes the chase and a woman that he feels is a catch (a woman who is put together and so he has to put himself together to get her) is ideal.
Fat or skinny isn't really the issue... guys generally like girls that are not TOO skinny... they'd prefer average to 10lbs over. They've done studies showing that men are most attracted to women about 10 pounds overweight. Don't listen to what the magazines or commercials say, men surveyed everywhere have said 10 lbs overweight is what they like. It's also the shape and the way a person carries herself. All different men like all different women. Some like petite, some like amazon, some like curvy, some like waifs and some are chubby chasers. Just be happy with your own body and the confidence that you exude will attract someone to you.
2006-11-06 13:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight does matter to most guys! Do you want a fat or overweight guy? Be honest! We like a girl with a nice figure, pretty smile, good personality, eats healthy, and takes care of herself. A girl who works out and is athletic is way better than a girl who doesn't and treats her body bad like eating junk food, fast food, and smoking. Treat your body good and it will show and the guys will notice you more than the girls that don't!
2006-11-06 13:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion, as* and titts till they r old then they want someone they can live with wout going crazy.....worry more about how u can be smart and take care u before u worr y bout some guy and what they want
2006-11-06 12:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No at all... She´s can start be loving herself the way she is... she´s worth it... guys actually fall for that...
2006-11-06 12:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by thysa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋