how do you deal with annoying little siblings getting you in trouble all the time?

Question

My younger sister is always really annoying and we fight all the time ...She always gets me in trouble by tattling and just being a brat!!

Answer 1

Wow that's what my sis says about me. Well what we do is we have a family talk (include rents), talk to your little sis and try to make her understand that the tattling is annoying and you are willing to make a compromise on not fighting, worked for me. Hope that helps.

Answer 2

I know you dont want to hear this, but this is something siblings do, but as a mom I had to learn myself that it is not always the youngests fault I have a 15 daughter and a 5 yr old daughter, and for a long time I just assumed when they fought the older one should have known better then to fight back, but Ive learned that there are always two sides to every story, my 5 yr old is very much an instigator, and now i hear both sides and it usually is the younger ones fault, not always, just sit with your parents and let them know how you feel, if your much older you need your space too, Im sure they know but feel as I did, if you have seperate rooms shut your door, for a little you time, if not go somewhere else where you could be alone, someday your little sister may be your best friend good luck

Answer 3

As a middle child, I've found that both the best way my older sister stopped me from messing with her and the best way I stopped my little sisters from messing with me was to completely ignore them. Little kids love it when they do something to you with the intention of annoying you and you react annoyed (because that's just what they wanted to see). So the next time your little sister takes all your underwear and throws it in the front yard for your neighbors to see, no matter how pissed off you are, just ignore her jeering, pick up the underwear with a straight face, put it back in your drawers, and continue as if nothing happened. It's hard, but once she realizes she isn't getting to you anymore, she might give up and move on.

OR...if you really wanted to mess with her, you could get your own form of revenge. If you know the name of a boy in her class, take some of her homework and write "I LOVE JOHN" or whoever all over it in pencil, and do the same on her book covers, or something else (that was kind of a dumb suggestion, but you get the idea) so that she'll be embarassed when she goes to school the next day.

I've also found that bringing your older friends over to your house subdues little siblings. Bring a boyfriend or an intimidatingly cool or tall person over and your sister will probably stop messing with you.

Good luck!

Answer 4

She wants your attention. She fights with you just so you will pay attention to her. Try being her friend, as hard as that is. Maybe make a special day for the two of you to do something...like grab a pizza or play video games. It may take awhile but pretty soon you will develop a great relationship with her and she won't bother you so much...she may even start keeping your secrets!
I was an annoying little sister, my sisters boyfriend gave me the nickname "brat" and my brothers ex girlfriend still doesn't like me that much...and I'm 29! Both my sis and brother have a great relationship with me now...just remember even the brattiest kids will grow out of it and one day they will be a great friend!
Hang in there


BTW my sisters boyfriend that called me brat is now my brother in law and he never calls me by my real name...it's still Brat.

Answer 5

All little siblings must be stressful, yet you won't be in a position to truly do something to him because of the fact he's a factor on your loved ones. Siblings get much less stressful after some years, yet once you won't be in a position to look ahead to some years, I advise you connect a game and enable loose all of anger and/or violent thoughts/recommendations approximately your brother in that game, like soccer. fake that the ball is him.

Answer 6

Chances are your sister wants your attention. You can do many things to avoid her and or, try to solve the problem (s). You can go far away from her. Get her far away from you. ( Like make her go out with friends.) You can embarass her in front of all her friends, in public, or in front of the boy she likes. The positive things you can do is be the loving older sister that I'm sure you're capable of being. Spend time with your sister, change your attitude, show confidence by not blowing your composure. Play along with her jokes. Laugh at her and lighten up on her. Because really, once you hurt a loved one it won't make you feel better or will it? (That's for you to decide.) Anyways you have my ideas, use em or lose em. lol

Answer 7

I used to have that problem when I lived at home about 5 monts ago. I'm 19 and she's 12. It was really tough. I had to lock all my stuff up, she read everything of mine. I'd leave the house she tell on me. I ate something I wasn't supposed to, she'd tell. I did not have a life. She thought she had to be the boss of me. Now that I live on my own a couple of hours away. I think about it now, I really miss her. Its stuff that simblings do, and its part of life. She's the best thing that ever happened to me. I love her to death! So, my advise to you is to just stick it out. Because when you move on with your live like I did, you'll miss every bit of it!

Answer 8

She probably just wants attention and doesn't know how to go about doing it. Try playing with her some to show her that you love her. Talk to her on her level a little.

Answer 9

GF I NO EXACTLY HOW U FEEL .. BUT WITH ME I HAVE 2 OF THEM I HAVE A LIL BRO AND A LIL SIS AND YA THERE ALWAYS GETTIN ME IN TROUBLE OR TELLING ON ME OR IF I AM DOING SOMETHING WITH A GUY OR TALKING TO A GUY OR JUST DOING ANYTHING THEY TELL AND I AM ONLY 12 YEARS OLD AND I AM THE OLDEST SO YA EMAGINE HOW IT WILL B IN A COUPLE YEARS..... JUST ANOY THEM

Answer 10

the same thing happens to me, i just started talking to my sister nicely and we always end up laughing and saying the randomest stuff, some times a little sib isn't all that bad, believe me!