My First Crush?

Question

I have had smaller crushes a lot before, but I have never been this obsessed about a guy. His name is TJ and I am going nuts! He has a girlfriend and they never do anything! He says he is thinking about breaking it off with her. Whenever I am with him he makes me laugh, and he likes me for who I really am, I know that sounds juvinille but I have been bitten by the love bug? How should I get his attention? And how should I get him to speed up the break up? All my friends think he is dorky and weird, and they make fun of me because I do like hiim. But I can't help it! After I hang out with him I always have a huge smile on my face and nothing can phase me. I really need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Well I have been through this problem before. The guy's name was Chase. God I loved him. So anyway, it was a year ago, and I really liked him. But he had a girlfriend named Katie..Grr. So I TOLD him that I liked him. We became friends, sooner or later Katie broke up with him to go out with someone else. And I tell you, I was OBSESSED with this boy. I got my friend to ask him out for me, he said NO. I really was embarresed because he liked me and he was just playing hard to get. Then I got my friend to ask him again, he said NO..again. Then whaddya know, in 6th period he asked me out himself, because he wanted to ask me himself.. So its a year later. I'm dating the guy of my dreams. He tried to get me jealous 3 times. By using 3 girls, because he still loves me.

in conclusion..just give it time, and it WILL come.

P.S. He loves you.
P.P.S. You are head over heals for him girl. =]

Answer 2

Well, I've been helping my friends with relationships, and I am bloody bored right now, so why not help more people?

I suggest you do -nothing- to speed up the break up, let him and his girl do it at their own rate, and let it die down naturaly. Then you have less to worry about when dealing with parted feelings and all that.
Something I tell alot of people: Like who you want, It's not like your friends are dating that person anyway. Ignore what your friends say - They're doing just that, being friends, and looking out for you.
Just take it slow, and know in the end it will be worth it - Hint it, yet not strongly. Guys are not as dense as most women think. Just be yourself, act natural, and also, do what comes naturally to you. Whatever you think will work - Probably will.

Just don't get too caught up in to it!

Answer 3

A.) Learn to spell. B) Would you really want him if he dumped her for you? Later on would he dump you for the next girl? Be his friend and later on, if it happens good if not let it go.

Answer 4

Yes is a crush, and well keep hanging with him, do the things his girlfriend doesn´t and you know he likes

Answer 5

You sound like a girl that i use to know her name is Daniella Rocha in elem school.

Answer 6

If the break up is going to happen let it, all on its own. Be there and he'll look for you.

Answer 7

try being a little more of a friend to him, talk with him a lot. be sweet. then when he realizes that he likes you, that other girl is history and you SCORE!!!!!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Just have sex with him on the spot in front of his girlfriend.

Answer 10

walk up 2 him stick ur handn his pants and say i need this