I am a member of a popular ADULT site and many women advertise for sex partners. However, when contacted it is a different story. I feel it to be a "Bait and Switch" type of scam.
2006-11-06 12:38:19 · 21 answers · asked by da1yomamawarneduabout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think women associate sex with a relationship. It's not that they don't want sex, it's just that they want a relationship to come with the sex.
2006-11-06 12:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's no different than guys joining dating sites, asking women out, then telling them they really only want sex, not a relationship...
It's not right either way, but some people get desperate for what they want that they feel a little deceit is okay...
If you do not desire a relationship, then make it plain up front to the women you contact and let them know if that is their ultimate desire, you are not the right person for them...no matter what happens next, at least you know you were straight up with them about where you stood...
2006-11-06 12:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look when you date a girl or marry a woman and you guys have sex. do not always have sex when she wants it. id flat out ignore the girl to be honest until she beg's for it i dont mean do not pay attention to her still be nice, i mean treat her well and everything but do not mention sex at all and do not give into it when she asks. Sooner or later she will wonder why you dont want to f3ck her. Also keep in mind you need to give a woman love and attention not just sex, females might withhold sex or not be up to it if you forget the little things and if all you do in sex is get yourself off. Treat a woman right and it can be rewarding to you.
2016-05-22 05:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Bait and switch?" Nooo - just that these women may want sex, it's just that they also want more than just sex. Most women do - heck, most human beings want to be appreciated, liked, and even loved, not just used conveniently and discarded. When you contact them, they tell you more about themselves and what they want. It's not like they made arrangements to hook up with you, then told you afterwards that they wanted more.
BTW, discriminating people want to have a good relationship, friendship at least, with the people they sleep with. Moral/psychological reasons aside, it lessens the chances of catching a disease if you get to know your partner.
2006-11-06 12:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It IS a bait and switch. Men love sex, and they tell us what we want to hear, so they can get you, then they pull the relationship crap. I'm not saying relationships are bad, but you are so right - they need to tell the full story. Not mislead you.
2006-11-06 12:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want sex but when they have sex some women start falling in love, thus "relationship". Women fall in love alot faster than men (in most cases). Thats not always the case though. Its just more like, statistically speaking.
2006-11-06 12:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Popcorn Playa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women bond more during the sex act than men do. Men, particularly when younger, just seek some form of release, while women want to feel a "connection". Maybe you need to date a porn star.
2006-11-06 12:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THOSE women are lying. THIS woman really does prefer sex over relationships. I have a life to live — I can't waste it loving a guy.
2006-11-06 14:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they know you will respond to them just wanting sex partners so they got you, get off that website and go out a meet a real woman dude its much better
2006-11-06 13:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex "is" a relationship to most women, they think of both as the same. It's life and now you know so move on and protect yourself at all time (boxing quote).
2006-11-06 12:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by v.complex 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋