I only met him once at a party but dats about it, another problem is that his my friends brother.
2006-11-06 12:23:48 · 22 answers · asked by lifescrewus123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I am going out with someone that is 4 years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 22. Almost everyone doubted how long we would last, and we'll be together for 5 years in December.
good luck! <3
2006-11-06 12:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you're over 18 or not. I've dated 3 years younger, 5 years older and my current boyfriend is 7 years older than me. The irony is that I feel the age difference the least with my current boyfriend. It all depends on personality and how comfortable you are with each other. The older you get, the less age matters.
As far as him being your brother's friend, that's something you may want to broach with your brother. Ask how would he feel about you dating one of his friends? He could also give you insight into the guy too. Maybe he knows things about this guy that you don't know. Like maybe he uses girls or is bad with money or something. Just be prepared incase your brother is not a fan of you going after his friend because he could be worried about what it would do to their friendship.
Good luck!!
2006-11-06 20:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by G v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. Age differences get less akward and extreme the older you get. For example say if you were 13, you probably wouldn't go out with a 17 year old. But if you were 21 dating a 25 year old would not be so weird. So yeah it depends on you're actual age.
2006-11-06 20:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a man 7 years older than me when I was 21.
2006-11-06 20:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you are. If you are 18 then you can date a 22 y/o but if you are younger then the guy can get in trouble (statutory rape). And the younger you are the more the age gap matters. I mean a 12 y/o can't date a 16y/o and so on. GOT IT?!
2006-11-06 20:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 plus is allowed too, anything younger is awefully young. I'm 20 and my last boyfriend was 30. Honestly, age is just a number. Are you two compatible mentally? Are you both at similiar stages of life, regardless of how long it took you there? Etc.
2006-11-06 20:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs is not a bad age difference/ but i would talk to my friend before dating the brother
2006-11-06 20:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. i am going out with someone 4 years older than me. and he is my best friend's brother. It not weird or anything. it's pretty cool to tell you the truth. and why shouldn't you be able to go out with someone older than you. there is nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-06 20:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf is about 3 years older than me and we had to over some some differences like drinking age and stuff. I don'tthink his age has ever bothered me.
2006-11-06 20:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by justmesmiling25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am dating a guy 9 years older..Perfectly normal.
2006-11-06 20:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋