Every single guy I like romantically ends up thinking of me as just a friend, in a sister way if you will. I can't seem to make an impression on them as a girlfriend and it's driving me INSANE. Please please help me.
2006-11-06 12:23:07 · 16 answers · asked by kfttjdbsjpu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hang arond him and let his friends know that you are close to him and they will start talking then eventually telling him but not to close i did this and thi girl didn't qwant to go out with me caseu i was to much as a frind
2006-11-06 12:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by jordan-english e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do because the one you are supposed to be with will think of you as such. Don't try so hard to make an impression on them as a girlfriend and just remain the way you are. Just continue to be a friend and when the time is right you will meet the one. Just be patient. I know that doesn't sound like the answer you wanted to hear, but it's the one that's true and most simple.
2006-11-06 20:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it drive you insane.
Some of the best of romances & marriages started off as friendships. Sometimes, something that simmers slowly over time can mature into a deliciously prepared love. Try and understand that we don't all "blossom" into butterflys at 16. Some of us are "late bloomers" and look fantastic and have the guys drooling at 35 or 40 or 50 years old. I would not go back to being 17 and lean. At 45 and single again, I had several years at the gym, gotten some body fat in the "right places" and ola'! Guys were fluttering about me like moths to a candle.
I may have a few extra wrinkles, but I'm more mature, focused, better listener, and know what I want and need in a man. Be patient. Time may be your best friend. Just let things continue like they are, don't go crazy, and just focus on bettering yourself for a better mate in the future. Get your education out of the way, practice healthy living, get your credit established, set aside funds for your future, learn to like yourself, develop deep friendships with women, get involved in your community and Church. Just become a well-rounded gal. Guys will begin to notice you and next thing you know, you'll be beating them off with sticks!
Patience, my dear. All good things come to those who wait.
2006-11-06 20:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a guy is thinking of you as more than a friend then that means that your rep is down the toilet. That is not a good place to be - trust me.
The guys that you know that don't see you as a romantic interest are not meant for you. Your guy is out there. Have patience it will happen. The funny thing is that when it does happen, then that is when those other guys will see you differently. When that happens, you can tell them "You had your chance"
2006-11-06 20:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, girls get into the boys as a mind thing, lots of romance; whereas guy get into the girl friend thing based on the physical, they function on hormones. When you are sure you are thinking of one as a bf (are you over 18 ?) then you will start with the girl / hormone behaviors. Maybe they think of you in a sister way because that is all you are really ready for. Do not push the real boyfriend thing until you are ready because being a tease can be Dangerous ! !
2006-11-06 20:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just, be real and don't get to close to him, place a good self esteem on yourself, a lot of guys really like girls who are hypped with theirselfs, be nice and always be there when that guy needs a clue, being a friend is not a bad sign, it's the basis of most good and lasting relationships, the best of couples we have today , actually started as friends. Be real and you would definitely get one who would digs you for who you are. Cheers
2006-11-06 20:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Victor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he thinks this because you are acting like you just want to be friends. Try wearing some makeup, a skirt shorter than you usually wear, and let guys know (discreetly) that you are interested in them. It's OK to be a little flirty sometimes :) Hope this helps!
2006-11-06 20:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, you may need to learn how to flirt a little. Watch other girls and what they do. If you can do it then try. Otherwise, there's alot to be said about being a friend to anyone. You may just have the best of both worlds. Good luck
2006-11-06 20:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try opening up to them in a sensitive way. most guys prefer to be impressed with a female that likes guy stuff but has a sex appeal about them (not saying do anything freaky) show them that you are not only beautiful mentally but physically too.
2006-11-06 20:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by epicwarrior 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one...quit giving off the (one of the guys) vibe..and stop acting like a friend...be more girly about things...well like...dont always agree to do what tehy want to do sugest doing things like going out to eat or something romantic...just giggle alot and flirt that should help...i hope you find what your looking for...goodluck,ash
2006-11-06 20:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Timmys lil angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋