I was driving home after work, and I saw a car behind me, and it followed me to my apartment complex. When I parked and got out of the car, it was my coworker! And I know where he lives, and it isn't in my apartment complex! He followed me home! Is that wierd? Was he really expecting me to invite him in my apartment or something? I didn't, by the way
2006-11-06 12:19:45 · 34 answers · asked by cutegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I said "it isn't my apartment complex" I meant that he doesn't live in my apartment complex, but somewhere else. Sorry.
2006-11-06 12:45:50 · update #1
maybe he's stalking you; maybe he likes you.
maybe he just wants to get to know you.
you should talk to him about it- don't be angry at first, unless he has a crap reason, like wanting to get in your pants.
what happens might depend on your past relationship with him. if nothing has happened between you before, then i'd question his behavior.
2006-11-06 12:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by James Bond Chickz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait I don't get something, if It wasn't your apartment complex where were you?! You said in your question that he followed you home, and then you said you went to a different apartment complex? And then you didn't invite him in? I don't get this question, no offense. sorry but do you think you can add additional details?
2006-11-06 12:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE make sure you report this IMMEDIATELY to your supervisor! If you ever see someone following you, NEVER go to your residence! I don't mean to sound like a mom, but I AM ONE! No matter how harmless you may think someone is, remember, predators are just that! PREDATORS! they come in all shapes,sizes,races and creeds. A 16 yr. old girl in my area was just murdered by a coworker she stopped to help alongside the road! He was "such a nice guy" every other coworker said! "He seemed harmless". He was released from prison in March after serving time for killing a 5yr old boy. BE SAFE! COVER YOUR BASES! and ALWAYS be aware of your surroundings! NEVERr open your door for anyone but close friends and family, and keep your phone in hand to hit 911 PLEASE!!! Sorry to harp, but that's my job. 0;-)
2006-11-06 12:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOH, my stalking radar just went off. You don't include enough information to know if he could be or has the potential to be a scary customer. Did you speak to him when you saw one another? What was his response? Tomorrow, you must speak with him about this. If you two do not have "chemistry" already, that is weird, but almost understandable if you are very young. Lock your doors and windows, just to be sure.
2006-11-06 12:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by finaldx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Creepy. Wish you had more details on this. Has he been showing intrest in you? Or is this out of the blue. I would definatly be locking my doors at night and being a little more aware of my surroundings. Him following you home is pretty desperate. Watch out!!
2006-11-06 12:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sophiegreeneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little scary...if you noticed it was him when you got out of your car, you should've acted like you were visiting someone or knocked on a 'wrong door', got in your car and drove away...
That's stalking behavior and could lead to something dangerous...
2006-11-06 12:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is weird and if it made you uncomfortable, that's a sure sign it was highly inappropriate. If he does it again, confront him at work with your boss present. Let them know you are not doing anything to encourage this behavior, and if it continues you'll take further action. This could turn out to be dangerous, so please do SOMETHING about it, for sure.
2006-11-06 12:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by KerryAnn67 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what the deal was. The fact that you thought it was wierd , means it was. Have a co-worker or mgr with you when letting him know that this is unacceptable Be firm & be safe!
2006-11-06 12:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by AKRR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is creepy. if you notice a car following you, do NOT go home. That will show them were you live. that would creep me out a lot.
2006-11-06 12:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he waited, and waited for you to get off work, just watching you, sicko, I bet he thought he was gonna get some in his sick mind, don't let a controlling guy like that it in, GOOD FOR YOU.
FLIPSIDE-if you live on the bad side of town, he could be just worried about you..........if he's a friend.
2006-11-06 12:26:08 · answer #10 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's borderline stalking. When you get to work tomorrow report it in writing to HR.
Then ask them to tell him to knock it off.
You don't want to let this guy think he can get away with this. Scary.
I will pray for you because this situation seems more than weird.
2006-11-06 12:22:47 · answer #11 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋