I met this girl and we have been good friends for a while. We both just got out of long term relationships about 5 months ago. I know i am ready to move on cause mine wasen't all that great of a relationship. But, hers was but they broke up cause they just knew it wasen't going to work and she says shes not ready yet. which I am fine with, we hang out all the time and do many things together be it little or going out on a date together. I even goto her house when she needs help. She knows I am interested in her and it seems she is interested in me too, but somedays I kinda wonder if she has second thoughts on it. What should I do? Should I back off or should I continue what I am doing?
2006-11-06 12:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by Billy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep doin wut your doin. The female brain is one thing no guy will ever fully understand. One day they're all over u the nxt they don't wanna get within 20 feet of you dont stress on ur confusion.
2006-11-06 12:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Agent Buckwald! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because she seems interested doesn't mean that you should push her into anything. Obviously this guy meant alot to her and she is taking it really hard. She needs you to be the friend that you are being. If you push her into something that she is not sure of, then she may end up hurting you in the long run. If she knows that you are interested, then leave it at that and just be patient. If it is meant to be, then she will come around when she is ready. I think you should back off and just give her time and continue to be her friend.
2006-11-06 12:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say talk to her and let her tell you where she stands as far as her feelings for you. If she's not ready then maybe back off a bit and let her be, if she wants to she'll look for her friend and it'll go from there. By backing off a bit I don't mean completely drop out of her life but keep yourself busy doing other things that don't involve her all the time and give her time and space to organize her thoughts a bit. Have u heard the saying " you don't know what you've got until you loose it?" Well, it's trying that out in a sense... Good luck!
2006-11-06 12:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sea -N-Sun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what your doing, that persistence will pay off when she's ready.
2006-11-06 12:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by tallspot07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue what you are doing, and don't push. She will come around.
2006-11-06 12:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋