My bf of 8 yrs has been receiving texts and suppoedly call from another girl who is a friend. So he says. I texted her personally and she said she has no interest in him she has a bf. How would you react if you found out and wasn't aware of it happening?
2006-11-06 12:05:14 · 11 answers · asked by justmesmiling25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how long it has been going on. I was downstairs while he was showering and I thought I would check his phone out. When I turned it on, that message popped up, I read it had enoug time to remember the number and put it back. I can't ge the phonelong enough. I feel she may be right and he is doing it to get me jealous. We live together but are always so busy we never see each much some days. I tried to confront him indirectl and couldn't get no results. Today I clled the number and female answered. I asked who she was and she wanted to know who I was before she hung up. Her number isn't stored in his phone, unless he has it wrote down somewhere. I can't get a know or how long it has been going on. All I know she is aware he hs a girlfried. He says he taks to her about us and our relationship. I don't know why he just doesn't come to me. He is straight forward with people in that I am his girlfriend. If my sister texts me he starts questining me.
2006-11-06 12:51:29 · update #1
if it's bothering you then talk to him and ask him to stop. how would he feel if a guy was texting you?
2006-11-06 12:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds suspect to me.
If this is some chick that he's never even spoken of b4 and all of the sudden she's calling and txting, something is wrong with that picture.
It really doesn't matter that u txt her and she said nothing was going on cuz there are a lot of shady women out here so I wouldn't trust her right off.
Best thing I could tell u is trust ur gut instinct. Only u know ur man and how all of this feels to u.
2006-11-06 12:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I feel like that is not very honest. I would have to wonder what the hell is going on if my boyfriend didnt tell me something has happened because I see it as there is something to hide... He will come back with the whole It wasn't important thing but I don't buy it... There is a reason for them to be talking I would sit back and look at my friendship and you twos relationship
2006-11-06 12:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by faithypoohf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yuu were not aware of this,then you should confront it. your bf may say that you are over reacting, then you should let him know that how come he did not even mention about this girl essaging him.if she was just a friend,why keep it as a secret? never trust a guy who keeps secret the identity of another girl,when he is in a relationship with you.confront him now!
2006-11-06 12:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she texting him so much?..Is there a reason, beside just saying hi etc?..If she is testing him so much..she must know him quite well..
here's an idea..why not suggest to your boyfriend, to invite that girl and her boyfriend over for a few drinks?..Just say iyou would like to meet her..in a nice friendly way. That way..you can see for yourself if anything is going on..that would be hard to hide if it was. And who knows...you might even make a new friend..or someone you know never to trust again!
2006-11-06 12:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask them what they were texting about. Or better yet, I would take his phone and find out for myself incase he was lying. I mean, what are they texting each other for? Don't they see each other when you are around? Or call each other on the phone? I mean, what's the big secret? What you can also do is take your bf's phone and text something sexy to her and see how she responds.
2006-11-06 12:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had the same problem before. i was really pissed!! i talked to my bf about it he said they where just friends and there's nothing wrong with getting messages or call from your friends...so what i did was i let other guys text me and call me and when he found out the text messaging and calling from his friends stopped.
2006-11-06 12:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO!!! That is no good stop it now. There is something called emotional cheating!!! Dont give it any chance to start.
2006-11-06 12:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of texts? sexual, hidden meaning, "hi how are you" your question is a little vague..If it was in any way bordering on sexual i would kick his *** if he responded and kick her *** for sending them after.
2006-11-06 12:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him what do they talk about and why
2006-11-06 12:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by dayday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋