Im Bob, Im 33 and my gf was 18. Even thou there was a age diffrence we got along VERY great. She left her family too come live with me, we lived together over a month. Wednesday her mamaw went into the hospital and she stayed at the hospital with her family that night. Thursday she came here with her dad too get her things. She would not even look me in the eye, would not even talk too me and tell me why. They then had me arrested on a unpaid traffick ticket that I had a warrant for. I was in jail until Friday. I was VERY good too her, EVERY day I would make sure too tell her I loved her and probably did 15 times a day. Just wednesday when I let her out at the hospital she hugged me tight and said she loved me until the end of time and couldnt wait too start a new job that we had been planning. We had even gone too take our drug tests.We both already had jobs but this was a better one and could work together. Now I talk too her online but she only talks about general things, never "us"
2006-11-06 11:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by The Red Dragon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All thru the past month we always held each other tight in each others arms at night. We loved going places and just having a great time. We both loved dogs and would play with my husky "Candle" alot. We difinately got along great and too me this was a total absolute shock. I always talked about things with her, always asked her opinion on what we should do about various things and was as good too her as I have ever been too anyone in my lifetime. I just dont get it and it basically has brought me too the ground. Somemes I think her poarents may have forced her too leave but I asked her and she at least said "No' it was her own decision. Online I asked her if she still loved me and she said she didnt even know about anything right now. I dont know where I went wrong, I did my best everyday, every single day. We would make love about 3 times a day for the whole past month. Im just totally shocked now. My yahoo messenger is ninjawarrior1973@yahoo.com
2006-11-06 12:06:08 · update #1
Her Mom and Dad had never met me until Tuesday, the day before she spent the night with them at the Hospital. On Thursday when her, her dad, and her brother came too get their things they came with a deputy. I asked her Dad what was going on and he said she just wanted too come home. I then said "well why didnt she just say so" and asked "why did you bring a deputy". He said the reason for the deputy was because you never know how someone is going too react. On the way too jail I asked the deputy if Abbey turned in me in for the ticket. He said no, that when he ran my name he saw the warrant. I understand that. I understand she missed home. I dont understand how everyday for a month she could tell me I was more important and special than any man alive then just walk out with no explanation. I also dont understand why she didnt just talk too me. This has truly brought me too the ground and I dont even know how too recover.
2006-11-06 12:19:01 · update #2
Alright, I see that you are tryin to make everyone feel sorry for you, even people that you dont know. Anyone who has already answered this question, and all those who are going to answer it, my family didnt talk me into leaving. I left because I wanted to. He makes it seem like everything was wonderful, but trust me it wasnt. We didnt have a place to live, we stayed with his parents, we couldnt keep money, b/c he insisted on working a job that we got paid a little bit of money at the end of the day, it may have been good that we was together in all, but you need more than that to make a relationship work. I dont know anyone who would put up with the **** that I had to put up with when we was together. Bob, all I got to say to you is, if you want to know why I dont talk about "us" when we talk, its because there is no "us" anymore.
2006-11-08 07:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Abbey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her family had a lot to do with it like maybe they were telling her that u were too old and at 18 i mean u really dont know what u want and dating an older man can be real exciting i dont know why they would go all the way to having you arrested that almost seems bogus and if she really did love you she would still be there with you so im sorry to say it hun but you might be better off being friends with her and moving on no matter how much it may suck and may hurt
2006-11-06 12:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too young - her life is just beginning. Her parents have talked her into leaving you. You should get on with your life and find someone nearer your own age.
2006-11-06 12:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK NANCY IS RIGHT..TRY AN OLDER WOMAN THATS NOT SO DEPENDANT ON HER FAMILY
2006-11-06 12:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋