How long sholud a guy wait after getting a girls number? Should the guy wait a week, I did. It didn't work out at the end, if your a girl give me some advice...
2006-11-06 11:50:16 · 21 answers · asked by SmoOv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like I tell everybody, I think that you should call whenever you get the feeling. I hate how people make dating into a game. There is no certain amount of time that you should wait. Just because you waited a week doesn't mean that's the reason it didn't work out. If the moment is right between two people and if they are feeling the vibe of each other, then it doesn't matter.
2006-11-06 11:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you should call as soon as possible. Or when you get the number..you could ask when she was gonna be home and try and set a date for calling her..* And then call on that day at that time. But, if none of this appeals to you, there is the 3 day rule..for waiting 3 days and then calling..but yeah, you probably shouldn't wait a week..*
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2006-11-06 19:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by samantha_renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a girl....so ill do my best to answer your question.
First of all, dont call her right off the bat...like that day or the next day. Cuz that just seems like your obbsessed. And a little clingy. You dont want that!!!
But...you cant wait too long or they'll forget about you. They also may think that your too busy with someone else. You may give them your number. If they dont call within the first 3 days. Try the 3rd night. Good Luck.......
2006-11-06 19:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Babyboi if u ever get a girls number the 1st thing i would tell u to do is call it asap to make sure its hers lol....u know how we like to play...then if it his wait like a day after u get it cuz then when u call her u could say gurl i been thinkin about since that nite at the club or w/e u know. make it seem special even if u really just found the number lol. Just dont be all cocky or extra late when u call. Good Luck
2006-11-06 19:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by ShAy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, a week?!? Why even bother? If you like her, why keep her waiting?
Most guys use the three-day rule, but I think that is a little long. Anything past that is unacceptable. Two days is better.
I am most impressed by a guy that gets my number and then tells me when he is going to call, and really does call me when he promised to. It shows that he respects my time, and therefore I am more likely to respect his.
2006-11-06 19:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call when you have a free minute, for me if you wait to long, i would think you are not interested and something else may be happening. So, if you are interested in her, you better call before someone else get the number and uses it. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-06 19:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her straight away! Shows you are really interested in her.
Do not leave too long or not call at all because that will really upset her and let her down. That is how i really get depressed. I am depressed now and have been for i long time.
PS I am a messy wrecked up girl/lady because of you!
Love Amie A
2006-11-06 19:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both were seriously into each other, I would give it a day or 2. If she really liked you, I hope you called her that night. But don't have a convo that would sound obsessive. Just be like, I wanted to see if ya got home alright. And keep in touch..even exchange screen names.
2006-11-06 19:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kell Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two days. You want to keep her waiting, but she's not going to wait a whole week for a jerk. So call on the 2nd day.
2006-11-06 19:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Vampire Attack! :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 and a half days because she's waiting too and anything after that says he's playing games.
2006-11-06 19:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋