I had already broke it up with the married man whom I had been seeing for almost two years now and its very hard for me to forget about him. I miss him so much, but my thing is to never call him anymore because its goin to start some problems again. But why am I feeling like I lost someone. I love him and he loves me too, but I had to break us up because I felt like i was just an extra piece, but I guess time heals everything huh?......
2006-11-06 11:45:45 · 22 answers · asked by simplegurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing. I am pretty much in the same boat as you are. It's been 4 months now and I still feel like calling but I just take this one day at a time and that is all you can do. You probably knew right from the start that this was not going to work for sooooooooooo many reasons. You just keep telling yourself everytime the urge to call him hits you, you remember that if you do, you will have to start all over again with the pain of knowing he is going home to his wife and he is not going to leave her for you. He is not going to leave her otherwise he would have by now. Good luck and remember your dignity ok? I do believe that the pain will go away and hopefully sooner rather than later.
2006-11-06 12:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boy this your question sound just like my life about 4yr.s ago. I was in the same situation you r, I missed him and thought about him every second of the day.
Time does eas things, but never fully closes the wond, you done the right thing by leaving him. Ask yourself this, if he truly loves me wouldn't he be here with me right now??, instead he's with her. I dont mean to hurt you, but you need to go ahead and move on, before you get pg or some kind of dissaes. Most of the time this kinds of things dont work out.
2006-11-06 11:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal this wound if you take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Don't you think you're worthy of a higher love than the one this man claimed to share with you? Don't you think your love should be given to someone who will respect you and honor you? Wouldn't you rather be someone's true and only love? Or did you get high off this 'dangerous' liason with another woman's husband? Take a good look in the mirror my friend. You know you deserve better. You're not the pond scum his wife thinks you are (and you can bet she knows about you). You are a good, decent, loving woman... take a good look in the mirror and start acting like one.
2006-11-06 11:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know how you feel. I was seeing a married man and he kept promising he was going to leave his wife, but never did. This went on for about a year and half untill I got tired of it. It took a while to get over him and believe me it was hard at first, but as time went on I got stronger and basically I am fine now. You just have to take it step by step and day by day trust me each day will get over him. There is also this song by monica called side line ho. It will really help you think twice about really missing him and maybe help u become stronger trust me when I heard it, I couldn't agree more that I had played that role before. Listen to it , it's a good song.
2006-11-06 11:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by black beauty 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing by breaking up with him. My advice is to find someone available. Maybe go to a dating site (eharmony.com is good) or just hang out at places where you can meet single guys. And yes, time does heal everything, along with a few prayers.
2006-11-06 11:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he would have left his wife and family for you, right?
He didn't love you, he just wanted to indulge his own pleasures.
Move on and meet someone who will give you a 100% commitment.
Time only heals when a person lets go.
2006-11-06 11:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by ABC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I feel for you cause i got myself involved with married man last year. I decided to break up with with him cause it is the right thing to do. It was very hard for me for the past 11 months cause this man also took my v-card too. Today, i'm very proud to say i'm a strong woman. I know you can got though this. If you need anyone to talk to e-mail me anytime. good luck.
2006-11-06 11:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by 2006xx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
excuse me did u say that you had a relationship with a MARRIED man!?
u shouldn't have gone out with him in the first place because
1. u probably broke his marriage
2. their kids will go through dilema
3. there are other single guys who are probaly better than him
4. u made his kids hold a grudge against him because of you
5. it's morally wrong to get into relationship with a married man
2006-11-06 11:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by hoolagirl12 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time does heal everything, as cliche as that sounds.
But you did loose someone - a very important someone, and it's going to be difficult. If you find yourself getting really depressed, you may want to talk to a councilor.
Good luck, and I hope you feel better, you WILL feel better, but it will take some time.
2006-11-06 11:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by keb 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What answer would you like?
You DID lose someone, even though it was wrong. It's good that you broke up it off with him, but you have to understand that your emotions are there. You ARE sad now, but you're going to be happier in the long run. You're not going to be the "other" woman anymore.
2006-11-06 11:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋