help! i need to comfort her!!!
2006-11-06 11:41:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
well before u comfort her u should make sure you keep ur own life on track, not being mean, but theres not much u can do now. she knows how to stop having sex or be on some type of birthcontrol, after two kids you automatically learn these things. my sis did the same, she had a baby at 16,then 18, then twins at 20 and i tried to comfort her but she even told me that she knew she needed to be on birthcontrol.now her kids are in school and shes finally working, her hubby is a bum so he doesnt help any. just hold her when she needs you but keep your life on track and learn from others mistakes.
2006-11-06 15:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by nicky l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I'm sure she already feels overwhelmed, and now even more. I think you need to make it clear that you are ready to help whenever needed!! Too much stress on a young mother isn't good, especially when she has four kids to deal with. She might feel scared and alone, and wondering what she'll do with the rest of her life. She'll be very fragile so her bff (YOU!) need to support her and comfort her. SHE NEEDS YOU! This is definately hard for her, i'm sure she's very grateful she has you. you are a really good friend to her. Good luck!
2006-11-06 19:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Allieway 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um....so, has anyone explained to this girl how that happens? Just wondering. There really is no comforting a young girl that will have 4 kids before she graduates high school. Maybe you can help her out by doing some research and finding her several methods of birth control to start using (well, once she has the twins that is). Has she considered adoption????
2006-11-06 19:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by sarahsmiles1222 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, she certainly will have her hands full. You just need to comfort and support her. be there when she needs to chat. And after the babys are born, take her to a planned parenthood for birth control pills. Thats the best thing you can do for her. Good luck, she's lucky to have a friend like you. ")
2006-11-06 19:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by buff 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does she know what causes it yet? This girl needs some major advice. And her tubes tied. She should be thankful she has someone who she can talk to. Dont be mean just make sure she knows that having sex is what causes it. and Make sure she get the medical help needed.
2006-11-06 22:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by sassylyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, four children is a huge responsibility. Are you the father of all four? If not, perhaps you both need to go to planned parenthood and seek options. I would question why she wants so many children. I am not sure if comfort is the way to solve your problem. Ask your parents, or your church minster for guidance.
2006-11-06 19:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
some student...Why do u kids swear that it is so cool to have sex at such a young age. I guess ur friend has no respect for herself and her family. She should have already learned her lesson....I mean if ur gonna do that stuff at least be smart about it and use a condom...u dumb kids these days I swear.
2006-11-06 19:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♫poison ♥s will never change♫ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Email me about if she wants the baby and if she has help
My email is:puppy_lover_caty@yahoo.com
2006-11-06 20:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Caty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me her number when she turns 18. I'll comfort her.
2006-11-06 19:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋