Have you (or would you) sleep with a guy on your first date?
2006-11-06 11:38:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have not sleeped with a guy on my first date, nor do I think it is appropriate.....it sends the wrong message to the guy, which usually they leave after they got what they wanted.
I usually like to take it slow, and date for a while to get to know the gentlemen; otherwise whats the point in dating?
2006-11-06 11:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it's not something that I am proud of, I must admit that I slept with my current boyfriend on our first date. The chemistry between us was electric and one thing just led to another. Afterward, I felt bad and even told him that I didn't think that I would ever hear from him again. He called that next day and we'll be celebrating our first anniversary in early December. I had never done it before and would never do it again.
I think that my situation is the exception rather than the rule, but not every girl/woman who has done this is just some bed-hopping whore. Just like not every woman that waits 3 or more dates to sleep with someone is some marriage-worthy wonderful perfect person who needs to exulted on some pedestal.
If I had to do it all over again, I would've waited. But what's done is done. I wouldn't recommend any woman/girl out there to do it--waiting is best. There's too much out there--diseases and societal attitudes and can brand you for life--and it's not worth it. But for the other women out there like me who have done it before, don't let anyone make you feel like you're less of a person because you had a momentary lapse of reason.
On the other hand if you're one of those girls/women who do it all the time, you take your fate into your own hands.
2006-11-06 23:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never did sleep with a guy on a first date. That doesn't mean I didn't have some one night stands, there is a difference ;)
2006-11-06 19:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jules 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No!!! Im 15 and pregnant!!! Ladies im givin u advice dont have sex till after ure married. I however didnt do that so now i have a baby on the way.
2006-11-06 19:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were dog and had no brains or self respect for myself and would like to play Russian roulette, yes I would .... but the answer to your question is NOOOOOOOOOOOOO !!!! Aids and STD is too common and scary no matter how much protection you use nothing is guaranteed.
2006-11-06 19:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! IM A GUY AND IF YOU DO THAT YOU ARE DESPERATE!!! A LADY DOESNT NEED TO BE ANSWERING THIS ONLY!!
2006-11-06 19:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bronco16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, where's the class?
2006-11-06 19:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Simone E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, if he is beyond sexy and i cant resist and i no it might be my only chance then hell yeah. but other wise no i would never do that.
2006-11-06 19:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by PreciouZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will not sleep, thats cheap girl.
2006-11-06 19:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might kiss him but thats all
2006-11-06 19:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋