I am basically in love with this guy, (yes the same guy from the other question) and I dont know if I should say anything to him.. He is such a sweet guy and he is gorgeous, but sometimes it feels like he gives me mixed signals. I dont want to say anything and then find out that he doesnt like me, because that would just make everything awkward. And I dont want to say something that will make me sound like an idiot and make him un-attracted (if he was ever attracted to begin with). What should I do that won't turn him away?
2006-11-06 11:34:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we already ARE friends...pretty good ones too, and Im afraid it will ruin the friendship..
2006-11-06 11:39:25 · update #1
Just be yourself.
I think guys appreciate that.
If he likes you he'll let you know it.
No need to be pushy and then regret
it later.
2006-11-06 11:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is sending you mixed signals , I would sit him down and talk over dinner out or something like that, just tell him how you feel if he rejects you well he is probably a looser anyway and you do not need him, you might get you feelings hurt but if you go into it expecting the worst there is nothing that will destroy you own self esteem.
2006-11-06 11:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for coffee. Chit-chat...get to know each other...gorw closer...become friends.
Save your deep-felt feelings until there is an appropriate time to share them. Even if he feels the same way, you should avoid just coming right out with how you feel. Wait a while, build a friendship/relationship, see if the two of you are compatible...then tell him. Go for it!
I wish you the best - hope it turns out the way you want!!
2006-11-06 11:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Grá 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sit around and wait for him.
Either tell him that u like him or move on. If he really likes u then he will say so eventually, but don't wait.
Don't hold back on who u are either, afraid that u will say something stupid, be yourself. If u say something and it comes out wrong or whatever, deal with it. It's ok. Let him see the real u. Not the one trying to impress him.
Good luck!
2006-11-06 11:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are infatuated w him- and what you think he is- a fantasy = and a hunk in the flesh!!Ahhh! Tell him you love him and it will scare him away- I don't know your other q- but is he your bf- if not and you don't hang out a lot- then you are really obsessing- that should scare him away- so take a deep breath- chill = and flirt a little- and see where it goes- D
2006-11-06 11:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to treat him as one of your friends. If you succeed and you both hang out as you wold with your normal friends, then eventually show him more interest.
If you find yourself not wanting to become his friend first then, do what you dont WANT to do , and simply tell him or have your friends tell him, then you will no for sure. Babe you dont want to spend rest of your life waiting for a yes or no. Simply tell him and that the end of it.
-James
2006-11-06 11:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be infatuation, which wares off after a time.
Just come right out and ask him your questions.
If you blow some thing along the way, and feel em-barest about it, He will still be there, if the two of you are ment to be.
If not, Tomorrow still comes
2006-11-06 11:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to talk to him, maybe do a little flirting see what his reactions are just don't go over the top.
Good luck i hope he likes you in the way you want
2006-11-06 11:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend.
The best way to start any relationship is to just be his friend first.
It takes away the stress, anxiety and frustration of not knowing if you'll be shot down or not. PLUS you'll get to know his personality, too!
2006-11-06 11:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt a little but not enough to make him feel awkward since he is shy.
2006-11-06 11:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋