What would you do if a guy that you liked, had come up to you and asked you if he could go out with you, when your mom doesn't allow you to date for another couple of years? And you would have to answer him right then and there.
2006-11-06 11:33:13 · 12 answers · asked by Cornelia Anabelle Banana Bo Peep 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i've had this happen to me! and i said well i cant technically date u but i can hang out with u. that way ur mom cant say u two are dating but u two can still hang out
2006-11-06 11:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by cutie123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that you're not allowed to date but you DO like him too, and you can still hang around with him at school or church (or wherever it is that you spend the time together to know you like each other!) Don't lie to him or lead him on, and don't get yourself in trouble with your parents to where they won't trust you. If he really likes you he won't be "mad" that you can't go out on a date with him.
If he finds somebody else to date, don't get upset - if you're as young as I think you are, you will BOTH be through fifty crushes by the time you're old enough to date. Hopefully he will only have good memories of you - and if you still like each other, it will be all systems go!
2006-11-06 19:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by Auntie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that yes, you would like to go out with him, but you are not yet allowed to. Offer to be friends until your parents will allow it.
2006-11-06 19:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, you know, i really would love to, but my mom won't let me go out for a couple of years, but maybe we could have a family dinner with you and your family and me and my family. ill aks my mom if that is ok, but if it is not, i will let you know. i really want to go out with you, you know i do but i am not aloud. i am so sorry! if he is ok with that, then he is a great guy 4 u, but if he is mad, then he wasn't good ever!
2006-11-06 19:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by browniecocox3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel u should do. Ask yourself...What are the chances of me getting caught?...What would the consequences be?...Is it worth loosing my parents trust? I have had the same problem but I went against my parents. BIG mistake...I couldnt date for an even longer period of time!!! Its your decision. Good luck!!!
2006-11-07 08:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by tears_like_rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy really likes you you should tell him the truth either way but, if he really likes you he will wait for you and not sweat you to do something that you are not ready for, If you respect your parents wishes you will be so much more happy because they are not trying to keep you from doing things, just things you may not fully understand just yet that is why they would like you to wait, and if this guy is really worth having YOU, then he will wait for you and not push you into something like that................Good Luck............................................
2006-11-06 19:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lie to him by saying yes and don't lie to your parents by saying im not dating anyone. Just tell him the truth if he really liked you he would understand
2006-11-06 19:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by .:clairebear:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom won't let me date yet. Can i ask you out when she lets me?
2006-11-06 19:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by James L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...just keep him low around your mom, you can still go out with him like i do all the time
2006-11-06 19:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by FredDIEMerCURyLOVer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him the true you are still young so your time will come just list to your mother father
2006-11-06 19:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by DIANE E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋