Well when My boyfriend and I first started going out we called eachother on the phone everyday and would talk for about 7 hours a day and also we would hang everyday too but 5 months later hes been not talking to me as much and also he hasnt been at my house either. He'll talk to my brother for hours but now he only talks to me for only about 30min but by talking he talks about his game and he'll yell at the game and completly ignore me so I dont know what to do should I do something special to show him i still love him or should I talk to him????
2006-11-06 11:31:59 · 24 answers · asked by ferretgirlsnickers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you mean talk as in on the phone most guys hate phones so after a while, especially if the calls were as long as you say, he is bored. But, it might not be with you. Personally, I hate talking to my wife on the phone, but in person we can talk for hours. We went through the samething and she would constantly ask if I was upset or bored or if there were something wrong, simply no I just hate the phone
2006-11-06 11:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay....7 hour conversations everyday? That was a bit excessive. Your communication is becoming normal. This is what happens as people get to know each other better. He probably doesn't even realize that this is bothering you. If you have a lack of stuff to talk about it probably means that you talk to each other too much. Only call each other when you have something to talk about! Just let him know that you love him very much but you've noticed that you don't talk as much.
2006-11-06 11:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get bored with routines in relationships very easily - especially men.
They need a challenge.
So, what you need to do is ignore your boyfriend for 3 days. If he likes you, he'll freak out and come running back to you in no time.
He just takes you for granted but you're always around listening to him yell at video games like he's a little kid.
2006-11-06 11:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by ABC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys were talking a little too much. I don't know how old you are, but my bf and I only talk on the phone for 20 min. if that a day. But we both work and I have children so phone boning is limited. It probably got old... Don't fret though he probably still cares for you.. just tired of talking all of the time.
2006-11-06 11:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha sounds like he is just getting comfortable with you, after a while couples dont have to see each other every day and talk for 7 hours, or you would get sick of each other. And also, when guys play video games, they go into a whole different world. Dont worry, just talk to him and tell him that it bothers you, and see what he says.
2006-11-06 11:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:16:43 · answer #6 · answered by staves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i totally know how you feel. I was in the same situation a while ago. that is kind of what happened with me and my boy friend. we used to talk all the time, and he still talked to me, but not as much. Try doing both somthing special and talk to him. Good luck hun. it hurts and i hope you don't have to go through that.
2006-11-06 11:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not. When you are in a long-tern relationship things change. Its never like it was in the beggining. Just do something special to get out of the Routine. He is probably geting tired of doing the same things and not you.
2006-11-06 11:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all talking for 7 hours straight on the phone is boring, he will get bored just talk to him and let him know that this bother you, go out do something together fun
2006-11-06 11:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking and paying attention to other guys. If he really likes you, he'll come around immediately. If he doesn't----well, you will have probably met a better guy anyway.
2006-11-06 11:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋