Im in my 20's. Ever since i have been dating my bf who is my age, they have had a problem with him. Keep in mind they have a problem with everyone. I can't tell the whole story , but basically there is nothing wrong with my bf in my eyes, he works, finishing school, treats me good ect. They just don't like him period. Anyway, i refuse to listen to my parents as they don't want me going with him. I love the man and i am still going to continue to see him. In the past i broke up with bf's just to please my parents, im not making the same mistake again. Now though my parents are being spiteful in that he is not allowed in the house now, and he isn't welcome to any family socials. Im in the process of saving money to move out right now, but man its so tough that they have to be so spiteful. No matter what i say or do they just don't listen. My mom now isn't speaking with me either, she just rolls her eyes even if she sees me and says nasty things to me just because im still seeing him.
2006-11-06 11:28:35 · 7 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just remeber that it's YOU who has to live with this guy for the rest of your life not them.
I would tell that to your parents. I'd ask them if they have a better choice, and if they do to bring them to you. I bet they don't.
This is probably a issue with a controlling parent either you mom or your dad. Some parent's really have a serious problem with seeing their kids grow up. They want you always to stay home and when you marry to marry someone rich adn is somehow subservient to them. Usually rich/successful people aren't subservient, rather, quite proud of personal sacrifice and achievments.
I don't envy you, you have a tough trail ahead, keep the pressure on and hopefully it will subside.
2006-11-06 11:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are in your 20s? Time to move out and be your own boss I would think. I know these days it takes a lot of money to do that, but just keep on saving would be my suggestion. You can't change your parents, so just change you for the time being. Don't cause spite. In other words, keep your dating on the QT for the most part, and pray. Prayer is the only thing that changes people, sometimes it changes the people we want to change, and sometimes it changes us, but it always make the change for the good. Prayers =)
2006-11-06 11:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are growing up and realizing what you want and you will have to hold your ground and hope they come around try not to make a bad thing worse let them know you love them Because in their eye,s you will all way,s be their baby girl and it sound,s like they don,t want to let you go!because they love you! even if they are mad and not showing it.
2006-11-06 11:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about them they should be happy for you unless there is a problem in that case you need to take care of it talk to your parent and find out why they dont like him
2006-11-06 11:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THATS REALLY WRONG IF UR HAPPY THEY SHOULD LET YOU BE... U SHOULD TRY AN HAVE A TALK TO HER AND LET HER KNOW HOW U REALLY FEEL ABOUT YOUR BF SOMETIMES THAT HELPS.
2006-11-06 11:34:21 · answer #5 · answered by THATS MRS .PRINZESS TO YOU!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore'em it worked for me
2006-11-06 11:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by aimar m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind mayb e they've seen smthn or know smthn and r mad bc they thnk u deserve better then what they think/or know they saw................get it...................protective................they thnk ur out to hurt urself
2006-11-06 11:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋