my ex bf asked me to hang out with him today after school. but see before he asked me this i already had plans . and today when he asked me to hang out i said i couldn't and that i would be glad to hang out with him some other day other than today. it so happens that he got mad and asked me what was so important that i couldn't hang out with him. i told him that my brother was going to this job interview and he wanted me to go with him. then my ex started to say i was lying and he got mad. i love him so much but he picked the wrong day!!! my brother is more important to me right now..... and he knows that nut i dont know why hes making a big deal out of it. he said that if we cant hang out then we cant get back.. sometimes i dont feel like getting back with him cus hes a jerk!!! but i still love him. what should i do?!?!?!
2006-11-06 11:24:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your ex sounds really insecure and selfish.
If he's going to throw tantrums like this every time u can't do what he wants when he wants...how are u going to deal with that?
He sounds like a big baby, very immature.
As far as u loving him, I understand what you're saying, but put yourself first.
U are still young. U should be having fun, not worrying about his fits.
2006-11-06 11:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it unfair of him to expect you to drop your plans when he asks at the last minute. It sounds like he might be testing you, trying to control you to make sure you still care about him. Which is understandable because breaking up is a very emotional thing and people deal with it in many different ways. But it is not okay for you to give in to him and let him control you.
Be supportive, tell him that you care about him as a person, but you have to take care of yourself. Call him soon and make plans for a time when you are both available. But try to make it something that isn't romantic, make it clear you are working on being friends. You might love him as a friend, and that is great. It is very valuable to develop friendships with people, but you can still move forward on your own and find a guy in the future who is perfect for you.
2006-11-06 11:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by HillaryC-S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex for a reason honey. Like you said Jerk. Believe me. I've been chasing after a jerk for three years now because I "loved" him. Now he finally realizes how great I am and I finally realize what a piece of crap he is. Not cool.
2006-11-06 11:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by incubus71089 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i had kinda the same problem but i had this boyfriend and then he broke up with me then like the next school year all his friends said he liked me but he was such a jerk he ended up asking me out again i just said no because last time you broke up with me like a week later then you asked out someone else the next day
2006-11-06 11:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by .:clairebear:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love him you should just apologize for being busy and ask to set up another day...BUT since he is a jerk i would be friends with him and hang out with him and see what happens...but i would also date other guys to find out what you like in guys..and if you end up still loving your boyfriend..then date him again of course =] good luck i hope it works out for you
2006-11-06 11:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by iiiloveemichael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to know that all boys are jerks. So why not give this boy or jerk has you call him a 2ad try. You know he love you.
PS I'm a boy or jerk
2006-11-06 11:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-06 11:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by biggie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋