because i don,t like someofhis friend and the reason is that they get him into trouble like bring him home drunk and then they wonder why i don,t let him hang out withthemwe have children at home so i let him have is night out should i tell him to get new friends or up up with this
2006-11-06 11:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by dar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this is a difficult situation but you must do whats best for your own best intrests. There are pleanty of decent guys out there .. (somewhere ;-) ) So tell him that it's his friends or you! This may sound harsh ... but you have to protect your children and yourself. If he chooses his friends then he isn't really interested in you.
Good Luck!
2006-11-06 11:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, you are doing the right thing, you have kids!
-He needs to understand that family is first before everything else. He needs to grow up, tell him that him comming home or always parting is bothering you and is giving the family a bad name, and if he doesnt change his ways, then you need to leave him.
If hes always drunk or taking his time off to hang with his friends, then he is not ready to be a father. Hell, once your a father only time you should be with your friends is on sundays at best, football or whatever; not everynight.
Best of luck.
-James
2006-11-06 19:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by jameswilliamlong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta let a man be a man. To choose your b/f's friends is controlling behavior and he will resent you for doing so. As long as he is taking care of home, it makes no difference if he comes home drunk, unless it affects your home (not just your feelings). I hope that the trouble that he is getting into is not breaking the law.
2006-11-06 19:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can not pick his friend,s for him.but you can tell him to go somewhere and sleep it off if he come,s in drunk keep the kid,s away from it is no way for them to be brought up!
2006-11-06 19:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have kids with your boyfriend and now your having trouble with who he is, you both need to grow up.good luck
2006-11-06 19:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with you, but you should really be careful with your children, i don't think that you want your children to be around those kind of people and then grow up to be like your boyfriend.
2006-11-06 19:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its too bad, the kids don't need to be around that.
2006-11-06 19:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right on
2006-11-06 19:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by joe v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-06 19:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.you should tell him but he probably won't listen.
2006-11-06 19:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋