all of this happened almost at the same time, but they don´t know anything about the existence of each other. One of them had her first sexual experience with me some month ago. Well, I don´t want to hurt anyone and I don´t know what I have to do with this situation. Both seem to be in love with me.
2006-11-06 11:12:54 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I know I deserve both leaving me, but you don´t understand how things becomed like this. In both cases all started ascasual dates, but I was lonely after my divorce and step by step all becomed seriously until you can´t come back. So I can´t to choose cause always it gonna hurt in any case, hurt for her, hurt for me. And if I try to go away of them both it gonna hurt and it don´t gonna be easy.
2006-11-06 11:35:31 · update #1
I don´t need your stupid puritan judgings OK? It´s enough with my mind. I just need solutions, nothing more.
2006-11-07 12:33:55 · update #2
Be honest with yourself first and foremost. Do you actually see a future with either of them? If you really like one over the other then end things with the other one. But you always run the risk she will find out and the truth will come back to haunt you. The sooner you sort it out the better. It is better to hurt someone now than later when feelings are much deeper.
2006-11-06 11:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Different people get involved with things like this. Tough decision making.. Eventually you'll have to get rid of one of them, or risk losing both of them. Ask yourself, " would I rather have one of them or neither of them if I was restricted to those two choices?" Get out a piece of paper, write down different experiences you have had with each of them that u thought were fun..and then also things you have in common with both of them. etc)... you will eventually risk hurting someone. The hurt heals most of the time.. If you ultimately wanna be happy, you'll have to get urself outta the situation.. give it a lot of thought.. that's the way it needs to be. Keep a positive head on your shoulders, and sit back and think and think... and finally do do do.. That's all I can say.
2006-11-06 11:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by TBT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I always reply your questions "broken heart".
Are you proving if I do speak English?
Oh... yes I do!
What are you trying to say? Are you really having an affair with two women at the same time?
You must make a decision by one of them and be sincere with both. In this way nobody will be hurt.
I believe it’s time of being sincere with yourself and with the other two.
Before you had your heart broken because you were single and alone, now because you are hurting two women?
You are always going to find excuses not to heal it.
Leave them and stay with me.
With me you will manage to cure that wounded small heart.
Good luck. Take care of yourself and the two poor girls.
And as always, we keep in touch.
2006-11-06 13:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, we need more info than this. But anyhoo.....
If u didn't want to hurt anyone why are u being deceitful?
Do u love either of these women? If u love them both, then u need to truly think about who u would be more compatible with.
I hate u took the one girl's virginity...that sucks....esp. since u were carrying on another relationship behind her back.
I hope u are using protection with both women.
2006-11-06 11:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really open a can of worms with that one. Isn't one woman enough for you. Who are you in love with? it's sort of hard cause you are with 2 girls, you have to pick both of them are really going to be hurt. Or one . They will feel not to trust you
2006-11-06 11:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by gemini19572001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide between them and consider how the one you had the sexual experience will take it. By the way what is wrong with you!!! One is enough trouble!!! You need to take care of it as soon as possible.
2006-11-06 11:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose who do u really love. If that doesnt work write down all their good points and choose whose the best at each point.But I think you should just really choose who your heart is set for.
2006-11-06 11:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3-some or grow up and be honest with them....you'll hurt one or both if you don't bring it up....people always find out.
2006-11-06 11:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by jacksonholegoddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide which one you want before you lose them both. Someone is bound to get hurt but it could be you.
2006-11-06 11:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by rose v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better pick one and stay with her before you loose them both how would you like it if you found out they were playing the field also.
2006-11-06 11:21:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋