im 21 yrs old female iv spoken 2 this guy twice only over the net iv seen his pic & hes seen mine,,he says he likes me........(confused)(how could u like some1 by looking at there picz & not know anything about them,,,WIERD!)
& now his given me his fone number 2 ring him BUT i dont know what 2 do.................IM SO PUZZLED UP,,CAN SOME1 HELP ME PLZ???
Iv asked this question on here b4 aswell,BUT the more answers i get the more options i will have thatz y im asking again.
2006-11-06
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
No don't trust anyone on the internet cause you don't know them and it could be dangerous! Especially since he just looked at your picture and said he likes you and he don't know you!
2006-11-06 11:16:30
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answered by Ash M 1
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Hi there,
What i feel is that you kind of like this guy too. But friend its better you wait a little longer. Think just by you looking at you pic and chatting only twice with you he likes you. This only happens in movies in reality its not the case. Just tell him that you both should continue chatting for a little while untill you start speaking on phone. Why dont you find out what and where he works. Where he lives etc. This way if you want you can have a check on him. Most imp reason is the pic he has sent it it really his.
Todays world you just cant trust people ever if you have known them long enough than how can you trust someone throught net who you have never met and spoken only twice.
You take care girl.
Good luck & God bless
2006-11-07 00:45:42
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answered by Blueberry 4
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What the guy means is (or generally this is what it means) is that he likes what he knows about you, and finds your photo appealing.
If you can call him from a cell phone (not a landline) then I'd go ahead and do it, if there's any interest on your part. If you use a landline phone, he can get the # from his phone service (after you call him) and use that to find your address...in my opinion, it's not a real good idea to allow someone you barely know from online, to know where you live...know what I mean?
So just proceed with caution...but if you are interested, find out more...I've met a lot of guys from online over the past years and had some great experiences (and no really horrid ones).
2006-11-06 19:17:54
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answered by . 7
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The best way for you to approach this is to give it time...He was probablly being nice by saying he likes you...Maybe meaning he likes the way you look and it fits with your personality from what he sees so far....Yes, you are right when you say how can you like someone by looking at a pic and not knowing them...Don't call him yet...Wait til you feel comfortable enough t do that...Don't be affraid to be open about wanting to wait till you know him better...Being careful is the way to go...Just by you question, you have a good head on your shoulders and you have actually answered your question in the answer...When in doubt, proceesd with caution...If you have a bad feeling about him, move on...Your gut feeling is your true instinct,listen to it...I wish you all the luck and be careful
2006-11-06 19:21:14
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answered by Frank D 3
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I agree with diya.You should not have shown him your pic so soon.If he wants you to call him just after he saw your pic and without any info it means only one thing and we all know wat.I think even if you continue to talk to him online he might be lying abt himself.So proceed with caution...sumtimes even the most desperate of men can be patient if they set their eye in a thing. take for example PLAYSTATION 3.Many are just waiting to get their hands on it but until it releases THEY WAIT....
Even if you DO look on the brighter side and IF the guy really likes you then when you ask him for more time then HE WILL COMPLY. TRUST ME ... IF YOU REALLY LIKE SOMEONE YOU WOULD NOT HURT THEM. in the end even if you decide to meet him do so with a couple of your friends.
i wish you the best of luck.Prevention is better than cure
2006-11-06 20:29:46
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answered by swankynix 2
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U shouldn't show ur pix on line so quickly..U know the person, talk on line for a while if u trust then u go ahead with him ..by Ur pic he just said i like u..that's really weird
never trust ppl like that..never give ur phone number too until u trust that person...and u r old enough to understand about ur safety on line....The pics u have seen , may be someone else's .. and u think that's him ..it may happen on line..until u meet face to face never fell in love or make friendship on line..
2006-11-06 19:43:22
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answered by Diya 3
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The short version? It does seems pretty wierd. Best thing you can do is not rush into some relationship. For all you know, he just wants to get in your pants. Maybe after a couple of months you could consider this, but not after talking two times.
(He might also just be desperate, but don't give him your pity (that may seem evil, but if he has that pity he'll just reel you in))
2006-11-06 19:16:52
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answered by wizard of stealth 3
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Do not approach him directly yourself. He likes you by seeing only picture. What does that mean. May be once he gets what he wants from you, he may ditch you. Don't be in hurry. Ask your brother or a clsoe friend to talk to him. Ask him to meet him.If he is serious, he will go further. Or else he will back out. If you do not mind falling in a trap tehn go ahead. Otherwise excercise caution. That is my serious advice.
2006-11-07 01:39:02
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answered by SGraja 4
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look u need know to the guys .be bold and ready.invite them for tea or coffee at any restaurant ask ur friends to accompany u in disguise so they can keep watch on the guy u gonna meet. even anything goes wrong they will help u immediately. don't be afraid of them and don't show them kind of expression that may make them alert.
2006-11-06 19:20:12
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answered by mayur m 2
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try to talk to him for some more time over net don't talk to him on the phone try to know him better over net and he still talk to u politely and nicely then move to next level do not involve in long distant relationship its not worth it some guys just do time pass by doing all this and for fun
2006-11-06 19:23:23
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answered by Neela 1
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