One of my good friends, let call her Jessica, and I go out all the time. We have known eachother for over a year now, is it wrong to love one of your good friends? To not stop thinking about them. Or to dream about them. We are perfect for eacthother but I think I have been in that "friend" Category for too long. Do I tell he all this or not tell her and continue to be friends?
2006-11-06 11:11:34 · 18 answers · asked by unglory2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think, from experience, that the least you could do is talk to her about the feelings that you have. The best relationship is one that the two of you can be honest with each other and...you never know, maybe she's feeling the same way but scared that you only want to be friends.
2006-11-06 11:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by HC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do love your friend, you should tell her. You should ask her to hang out as a casual thing..and make it really special for her. Then, at the end of the day tell her your feelings. It is not wrong to love her, but if you ignore it and block it out, well that is wrong. So you should tell her, especially since it sounds like you two are already really close and your friendship has grown, i think you have great chances of her liking you too.
2006-11-06 19:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by iiiloveemichael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a difficult situation. First off its not wrong to always think of your friends. Second, dreams are subconsious you can't cotrol them. The "friend" catergory sucks, but it will come to a point where it will drive you crazy and may affect your friendship. I would say something before it gets to the point where its "more than friends or nothing" in order to save your relationship as it is now.
2006-11-06 19:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you dont want to fall into that category that your too good of a friend that she cant date you, so ask her out before that happens and your SOL
2006-11-06 19:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mrbigjohnson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a big risk that is really only up to you to decide... it could ruin your friendship or make it much more than a friendship... I've been through this and have been with my friend, now boyfriend, for 4 years now! Its a risk that you gotta decide if you wanna take! best of luck to ya!
2006-11-06 19:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to jump the ladder, you might fall into the pit.
Just be there and if anything ends up happening, it will.
If you tell her and she says no, the friendship may go weird and aftr a while... end.
2006-11-06 19:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong.
My advice is to look for the opportunity to get closer to her and get your feelings out of your chest. Tell her how you feel. Otherwise, the love will eat you up.
2006-11-06 19:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if you really love her like you say you do, then yes you have to tell her. Otherwise it will eat you up inside and you spend your life saying "what if"--- Take a risk it will be worth it!
2006-11-06 19:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by abiphilinjapan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there myself you have two options one stay in friendville (i'm the mayor by the way) or bring it up, tell her. those are the only two ways about it.
*if you choose to stay in friendville ill rent you a nice palce on the river*
2006-11-06 19:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by namredips777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her honestly, she soulds like a really good friend so i think that if your arould her enough she is already going to kinda know you need to tellher how bad can it be
2006-11-06 19:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋