2006-11-06 11:09:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can actually tell you this from the heart because i have actually been through this. i think that its cool and everything that you tried at least to change for him, but i think if he really does like you then he will accept you for the real you. the preppy one..not the one who you tried to be. this happened to me and i was just me. and i didnt try to pretend to be someone who i wasnt and me and the guy actually ended up dating. i hope you get everything straightened out though.
2006-11-06 11:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chelc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very agaisnt people changing for people. Be who you are! If he doesn't like you for you, than why bother with him? Just wait for someone who would like you for you. It shoulden't be about looks. What I do is I always stand up for myself and demand respect. Ever since I started doing that, the guy I love has became one of my best friends. Never change for anyone!! If you did, people woulden't be liking you for you.
2006-11-06 19:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Katie M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't say its wrong but be careful. If you change the way you are make sure you like the 'new you' before you try impress someone else with it. They usually see right through a fake.
2006-11-06 19:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by lms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never change for anyone. Always be true to yourself first. Someone will come along that likes you just the way you are.
2006-11-06 19:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by rose v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me this would he like you for who you are or who you pretend to be? If he thinks you preppy why is that bad?
2006-11-06 19:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lawlwat? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends. if you changed everything for him and it is difficult for you to remember that you have 'changed' then it's unnatural and you are having a hard time.
I think everyone either subconcious or conciously has changed for a guy. But I think that if you changed and he still doesnt like you then he's not worth it.
2006-11-06 19:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change for anyone, jus be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are you won't last a month.
Because the real you will peek out eventually and poof, instant turn off.
2006-11-06 19:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by MisterO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change for anyone, if you do, then you are not living the life you have.
There's plenty of guys out there, and you really can't stumble onto the one meant for you, then contact ME.
2006-11-06 19:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by fed up with stupid questions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't change for a guy. if he doesn't like you for who you are, then forget him. there are plenty of guys that like preppy girls and are a lot nicer in the long run.
2006-11-06 19:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ever change for a guy...he will not like you for who you are because you are never really being yourself and you are being fake.
later in life you will find the perfect guy that loves you for you
2006-11-06 19:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋