I just graduated from high school and am now a college freshmen. My past two years in high school I feel really hard for this guy, we'll call him Robert. Robert is actually younger than me. When I say hard, I mean I was really in love with this guy. I thought about him every night before I went to sleep (and still do), and then cried because I wasn't with him. Sometimes I thought he felt the same way as me. He would just stare into my eyes for minutes but then all of a sudden break contact. Sometimes he would go out of his way to say hi and ask me how I was doing, sometimes he wouldn't. I know I'm young but I really feel like I'm in love. Usually I crush on guys because they're cute but Robert's looks mean nothing to me. In fact, I've seen millions of guys cuter than him, yet I still want him. I just found out that Robert has a myspace. I send him a friend request but got nothing back. What should I do? Send him a message? Just leave it alone? If I just leave it alone, how do I?
2006-11-06 10:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by blessed2o06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have all had our Roberts...mine was Jason. College seems like forever ago to me, but there is one thing i can tell you, as I look back and regret the actions (or inactions) i made. i felt that i was madly in love with jason, but aslways waited for him to innitiate the relationship...it never came...you know why? cuz boys/men are just as afraid of rejection as women. You know what I say?? don't give up. keep whatever connection open that you can. send him a message about the myspace...maybe he missed it, or hasn't been on. bigger than that, try to muster all of your courage and act on your crush. i let mine go..although i still find myslef thinking about him from time to time. don't look back on this time when you are 35 and wish you had the courage then...get him !!!
2006-11-06 11:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a little talk with him. He seems to show signs that he likes you, but he might not be sure if you like him the same way. He might be worried to ask you on a date or something, or if you like him. It is better to communicate things out and show your feelings than it is to hold things back, and think about what could have been.. a long time ago. Either he will say the same thing or he won't. I am sure he would not wanna hurt you if you liked him that way. ya never know what'll happen.. The main thing is having the guts to actually speak with him. Talk to yourself, build up your confidence and go for it. I am sure you can do it if you put ur mind to it. Think about what you want, what is important to you, and at what length you will go to possibly get what you desire.
2006-11-06 19:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by TBT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email or make a phone call.
With a friend request, if he doesn't recognise or remember your email, he will probably just ignore it on principle.
Email him. Find out what he is doing. If he is in your city, ask him if he wants to go out to a cafe - to catch up on what has happened for both of you since high school. At least you will have something to talk about.
2006-11-06 19:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HIM,, Most of the time a guy is more afraid to approach a girl that he thinks is out of his reach, regardless of any signs we give them. If you really like him and want to get to know him better, then you make the first move!! Don't think to much about the my space thing, there are so many guys that only check that thing once a month or longer. So girl grab some courage and you approach him and ask him out, if you wait to long it may be to late..
2006-11-06 19:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by M&M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. well, why don't you just wait for awhile. and if you really want to know, i suggest talking to him in person. communication through the internet, though easy and convenient, is definetely NOT the way to go.
i know it will take a lot of courage to ask, because this is obviously an important question to you. if he cares for you in any sense of the word he'll at least give you an answer. it may not be what you want to hear, but either way you'll get some closure. good luck.
2006-11-06 19:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by maria p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. If the "Robert is interested it will turn his head and if he's not at least you'll know and can move on. No matter how much you love someone you can't make them love you back.
2006-11-06 19:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by rose v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think you should leave it alone. He doesn't feel the same way you do. It would be best that you find someone who really cares about you.
2006-11-06 19:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sendng him an email (if you know he checks it) or talking to him in person, and judge his response.
I'm afraid that if he doesn't seem to want contact with you, then you'll have to suffer like you have been doing. Maybe you'll get lucky in the future and find someone else.
2006-11-06 19:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by answerator 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about him and concentrate on your studies
2006-11-06 19:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-06 18:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by aauballa 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋