I like this guy friend of mine, he already has a girlfriend. I think she is totally wrong for him. But, I am not going to get in the middle of that. But, whenever she isn't around he flirts with me and almost treats me like a girlfriend. I want to let him know that he needs to treat her right and if he wants to be with me or whatever, he needs to end it and end it in good terms. How do i do this? Thanks in advance! God bless!
2006-11-06 10:53:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from him until he and she split. Let him know that you really would like to be with him, but only as an exclusive situation and that you respect yourself and him enough to wait.
2006-11-06 10:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in any position to make a decision about his gf. Whether she is right for him or not is not your business. You need to butt out and mind your own business. You also need to find a guy who is available, not try to break up someones relationship.. You shouldn't be flirting or letting him flirt with you.
If he is good bf material he wouldn't be flirting with other girls while he has a gf.
2006-11-06 19:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you told us... that, if he doesn't want to be with you then he should respect his girlfriend and not be overtly flirty with anyone else. And, that if he's interested in you to just admit it and leave his girlfriend. Tell him you don't want the girl to end up hurt so you want to know what his decision is and you'll be fine with either.
2006-11-06 19:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, Hay ??? you know I think your a sweet guy and I like you but you are involved with this other girl, I like to hang with you but I think the flirting has gotta stop cause its not right..We can be friends but nothing else till he is no longer involved with anyone else...POINT BLANK!!!!!!!
2006-11-06 19:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you stop letting him treat you like a gf.
2006-11-06 18:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he will not have another "side-dish" if he dumps his girlfriend and goes with you ??? Why would you want him anyway??? Tell him he is a punk and find yourself a hunk !!!
2006-11-06 18:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by budlowsbro420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your place to tell him how to treat his girlfriend, nor is it your business to ensure how or if he ends it with her. Just tell him his flirting with you is inappropriate and dishonest. And then don't laugh or respond to it any more.
2006-11-06 18:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him like you did is- it is understandable and straigt forward-maybe he flirts w everybody- no telling =- and how would you like that??? Something to think about- D
2006-11-06 18:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just told us. Be up front about it.
2006-11-06 18:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by grrlstarr79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋