I have asked him many times if has been checking out porn sites and he had lied to me too many times. I know he has because I have checked out his computer and found he had been into all kinds of porn sites. Why do you think he lies about it and is it cheating? Because I feel it is and I'm attractive woman and still turns heads :o)
2006-11-06 10:51:38 · 22 answers · asked by Starlight4u2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortuantely, a lot of guys enjoy this kind of stuff. a lot of them will use the excuse that it is ingrained in them, and it is their male right. i find that to be a bunch of b.s. but, to answer your question as to whether or not it is cheating..i don't feel it is technically cheating. he lies to you because he doesn't want to hurt you. if he is using the web cam and chatting, then i feel it is cheating. but if it hurts you, that should be enough for him to stop. it hurts me too...you are not alone.
2006-11-06 10:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by shasta 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-21 06:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sadie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived with the same guy for 7 years and his interest in me has faded over time, I gave birth to our daughter 4 years ago...we very rarely have sex and he doesn't really seem interested in me when i have asked he says I am beautiful he loves my body and enjoys the times that we are "together" which because of his choice isn't as often as i would like...I came across the same thing, he has been on a porn site, listing his name for local people and he is stated as single and looking for a good time...i found all this on his email account, he had a membership to a site that he would log on to and chat with other people living in out area...i confronted him and asked why? he denied all of it, i know the truth, i printed everything out so him lying about it makes it worse...why would a man chose to watch this stuff or participate in this activity if he has a willing person living under the same roof?????This just happened 6 days ago, and i am consumed by it...i don't know if i should or can get over it...
2006-11-08 08:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to take this the wrong way but no it is not cheating however it can become a real problem which has lead to many great couples breaking up and yes it starts with lies. I would be more concerned about that than it being cheating. Time to talk it out like mature adults if you can. good luck and enjoy
2006-11-06 10:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm...maybe for some guys, they don't think checking porn sites means cheating or that sort of things...So maybe that's why he lies to you... Pluz sometimes they just dont know how hurt when you found out that they checked into all those sites... But for me...Lying is *still* lying... -_-"
2006-11-06 11:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by linlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not cheating. Depending on the status of your relationship he might just be curious and might be trying to learn a little something from porn movies. As to why he lied to you, probably because he was embarrased of what he had been doing and may have been afraid of the negative things you may have thought about him.
2006-11-06 10:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Porn is not cheating! but lying is lying! Men will always look at porn, this doesn't make you anything less to him.
Women always think it's me or that and think that somehow you have to compare or wiegh the two. It is harmless looking at beautiful naked people.
2006-11-06 10:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by JAY J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating. You need to understand that men think about sex about every 5 minutes. Literally. If he were to hound you about sex every time it crossed his mind, you'd probably kill him. So when you're not around, and the thought arises, he lets off the steam. Is it wrong for you to masturbate when he's not around? No. So let him be, at least he's not at the nearest bar hounding on some other chicks.
/caught my boyfriend a couple months ago
//now THAT was a weird experience.
2006-11-06 10:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Arenyth 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him straight up that you know he has been looking at porn (which sux, but not so bad) and see what he says. I had the exact same problem and I let it stew inside me and that sucked even more. I don't think looking at porn means he is cheating.
2006-11-06 10:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by I do what I want.. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
observing porn has no longer something to do with YOU!!!! Its all a pair of myth for a guy. no one is going to come again threw the computing gadget. Why you're so insecure which you think of it somewhat is cheating is loopy....
2016-10-21 09:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋