I havebeen dating this guy that lives 1200 miles away for a year now, and he just broke up with me because he wanted me to move down there, and I wouldn't. I still love him, how do I move on. I feel so incomplete with out him in my life. I know this is a common question, but I need special help on this one. As soon as we broke up, another guy asked me out, and I don't know if I should take him up on his offer for fear of hurting him because I still love the other guy. How do I move on, without deperately moving fro fling to fling?
2006-11-06 10:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its hard i know i dated a guy fro 2 years and 3 months and he lived 2 hours from me and i end up finding out that he cheated on me for 8 months and that he was heavy in drugs and then we broke up i dr y but that dont matter i took me 6 months to get over the fact that we were broke up and that i t was time to find someone else and u know what i found that person i want to be with for the rest of my life but he lives 300 miles from me and we talk everynight and everyday so i know what he is doing and i know where he is at it good to have that ablity to do that b/c most guys wont talk to their girlfriends everynight or everyday if they live that far but ya long distance relationships rnt easy i know b/c i cry everytime my boyfriend lives to go back home when he come to visit for the weekend or whatever but we have been together for a year and 8 months now and its seeming to work out good but hope u find someone that u can be with for the rest of ur life and hopefully u make a good desicion on that one lol
2006-11-06 14:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I was in an online relationship for about 2 years. I was miserable the entire time.
Anyway, it's good that you two broke up because long-distance relationships are VERY unhealthy.
What you can do is stop talking to your ex, give yourself a few months to heal and get rid of feelings, then try casually dating until you find the right guy. Just do what feels right.
2006-11-06 10:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your long distance boyfriend about it. Let him know you're moving on, and also be honest with this person. Let him know that you're not sure if you're ready for a relationship. Talk things through. If YOU are really willing to give this guy a chance, then be sure he knows that you may still be infatuated with someone else. Else, you may just wanna live single for awhile and swing with it until you feel comfortable going back into the dating world
2006-11-06 10:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
1 first u can talk to ur x and c if yall can get back 2geter
2 u can tell that guy yes or no but if but if u tell him yes u might want 2 warn him about how u still kinda lke ur x (but i don't no if that will go very well) but u don't have 2 and i meen do u really like this guy cuz if u don't then just tell him no but if u do like him and tell him yes mabey it will help u 4get about the other guy
3. if u want to 4get about this guy have some friends over and have a girl night out or a sleepover and mabey that will help u 4get about him
well i hoped i helped
good luck
2006-11-06 10:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some 'me' time...Just hang out w/ yourself for a little bit...Get into stuff you like to do...Same thing happened w/ me....I broke up w/ a guy I was dating...He lived 500 miles away...It's hard but it definitely gets easier...I started taking dance classes and yoga classes again...Things will work out....
2006-11-06 10:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by JennyAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your girlfriends. Have fun with them.
You don't have to date right away. That would be a mistake.
Get involved with something you truly love.....career, hobby, charity, family, etc.
2006-11-06 10:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time sometimes along time Look t othe Lord for strenth
God bless you
2006-11-06 10:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by 805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
without looking backwards as soon as the relationship became long distance you should have walked.
2006-11-06 10:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself sometime. Date but don't attach.
2006-11-06 10:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by lms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋