I'm currently engaged in three seperate internet relationships. All of them include cyber-sex and cyber-teasing. In all three instances, the relationships are of the sub/dom variety where I am the dominate master.
My girlfriend says that I spend too my time on the net. Honestly, I might but she is not into the sub/dom thing and I totally am.
Other than that we have a great relationship. We both get along well and truly are in love. But I need to have the sub/dom thing in my life, it's too important to me. By role-playing online, I am able to act out these fantasies.
But still, my girlfriend insists I'm online too much. Do you think we will get married some day?
2006-11-06 10:38:16 · 18 answers · asked by BOO! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're a cheater. She should leave you asap.
2006-11-06 10:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is aware of your online behavior (what you are doing, including cyber sex) and is okay with it, that's fine...you may or may not be spending "too much" time online, that's for you two to decide based on what other things you could be doing.
If she doesn't know your exact online activities then count on you losing her when she does...so no, I wouldn't say marriage is likely.
If she's not aware of what you are doing, let her know and let her decide if she's okay with that...she deserves to have that kind of info before deciding what kind of time and emotion she wants to put into a relationship...
Otherwise, you're just cheating...and it'll come back on you.
2006-11-06 10:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever really broached the sub/dom conversation with her? Have you provided her with additional information about dominance and submission? Have you tried all avenues of discussion? Cause it sounds like it is too important to you to ignore.
I honestly don't know about your relationship, my friend. We women can't compete with a computer, and very often view it as cheating... especially when we feel cheated out of time with you.
Maybe that's what she is really saying... "I need more time with you." Maybe your computer relationships are taking you away from stuff she needs you around for.
She does know about them, right?
Talk to her. Sounds like you guys are due for a good heart to heart.
2006-11-06 10:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is OK with what you are doing than that is great. But lessen to yourself she is only asking one thing from you and that is to give her a little more of your time. You need to make sure you are taking care of her needs to. Don't be selfish, If you want this to work into marriage you need to remember she needs attention to.
2006-11-06 10:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by girlio33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can be what you like these women on here to be then yeah youi can get married if not i wouldnt do it as long as your still looking even just cyber can lead to somthing so if your happy with your women why you need cyber women she needs to get into what these women give you and you guys could be a number one couple
2006-11-06 10:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you consider getting married to her when you have just admitted that she doesn't like your lifestyle and that your current relationship with her isn't statisfying you. A classic divorce case..just imagine how uncomfortable she feels everytime you bring up the subject. She doesn't like part of you lifestyle, you can't force someone to...sorry...
2006-11-06 10:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with having your separate hobbies, but if you are spending more time online than you are with her...than I hope she doesn't get married to you, because when you are in a relationship together, you should be partners, not separated.
2006-11-06 10:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relationship is two real people having a real connection. Your description of your "relationship" does not qualify. If you are asking about your rich fantasy life then it's wonderful but as a measure of "relationship" it's horrible.
2006-11-06 10:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a koo koo .... you need to be in a mental institute ....you better be glad you have a real life girlfriend and she obvisiously don't know what a wack job you really are....
2006-11-06 10:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by No 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you do your girlfriend is an complete idiot. You seem a little psycho. Have you had an MRI lately?
2006-11-06 10:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by legallybrunette510 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely - it's a definite possibility. i met someone online who i am totally in love with! i know people that are married who met online too. don't give up. ~mj~
2006-11-06 10:40:25 · answer #11 · answered by Melissa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋