I'm depressed.......................................?

Question

I look all happy in front of everyone. But Im actually depressed. I feel really alone since I dont have a gf. There are girls that like me, but im so confused as to which one I want. And because of my extremely low self esteem I doubt that they even like me, when its obviously do. I have no idea what girls see in me. I guess Im attractive but I kinda hate myself. I don't like myself at all, and I don't think im good for anything.I think about killing myself a lot. idk what to do

Answer 1

Call one of these numbers and talk to someone. You dont have to give your name.


crisis intervention/suicide

Boys Town Suicide and Crisis Line: 800-448-3000 or 800-448-1833 (TDD)
Provides short-term crisis intervention and counseling and referrals to local community resources. Counsels on parent-child conflicts, marital and family issues, suicide, pregnancy, runaway youth, physical and sexual abuse, and other issues. Operates 24 hours, seven days a week.

Covenant House Hotline: [phone]
Crisis line for youth, teens, and families. Gives callers locally based referrals throughout the United States. Provides help for youth and parents regarding drugs, abuse, homelessness, runaway children, and message relays. Operates 24 hours, seven days a week.

youth

National Youth Crisis Hotline: 800-442-HOPE (4673)
Provides counseling and referrals to local drug treatment centers, shelters, and counseling services. Responds to youth dealing with pregnancy, molestation, suicide, and child abuse. Operates 24 hours, seven days a week.

Answer 2

you say you guess that your good looking and because im a girl im gonna say that is what girls see in you. you dont seem cocky like other guys.you know your good looking yet you stay away from the bragging rights that the typical cute guy doesn't. i know what its like to be happy on the surface but really explosive and unsettled on the inside. i smile when i feel tears coming on because i don't want anyone to know how bad i feel. so from someone who also thinks about suicide alot, i think you should talk to a counselour. ive only done it once but let me tell you that one time, after i did it i felt the walls stop crumbling inside of me for just a moment and that was the greatest feeling ive felt in a hell of a long time! i mean when they tell you it will lift the weight off your shoulders they really mean it and they're not lying. if you would like some more personal advice (even though im a girl) you can catch me at "[e-mail]" dont be afraid to ask id luv to help you because it may help me as well.=] try to turn your frown into a smile.pleaze!

Answer 3

So, what don't you like about yourself? What can you do to change it? If you don't like your appearance, go to a hair stylist (one who can work with guys) and get a new haircut. Lose weight or bulk up as needed. Get involved in a sport, either in or outside of school.

Surely you're good at something - art, music, math, etc. Build on your successes in that area.

If girls seem to like you, talk to them. Then you'll find out which one you want, or maybe it's none of them but you've made some friends and maybe THEY have some friends you can meet.

Most importantly, get busy, stay busy and exercise daily. These 3 things will improve your self-esteem and lessen your depression.

If you've been feeling depressed for more than a month, eating/sleeping much less or much more than usual, have self-destructive thoughts, and don't get ANY joy out of life at all, talk to someone immediately.

Answer 4

ok first thing first u need a hug ( ) ok that over with, we have to work on you, all it takes is a small attitude adjustment....wont take much...i want you to go for a walk, smile at the people that walk by. say g'day,.
Give some time to a charity, those that deal with welfare, you will meet so many people whose lives are far worse than your own, your problems will fade into insignificance. You need to find the part inside that you can love that way we will be able to see it too & love you more. self esteem....just dance like nopbody is watching you will soon improve that....We all love ya heaps. T
he last funeral I went to for a suicide victim made me very angry, and took me a long time to come to terms with his death so we dont want ya doing that....I am not a good person to make angry lol

A final word if all else fails eat chocholate!!!!! It is a miracle cure for sure


luv ya

om xxxxxxxxx

Answer 5

Change your environment. You are in the wrong place. Leave your home, cut your ties, go to school. I believe you are around the wrong people. It happens a lot. Take a chance and get with better people. I think you are being held down, and you are struggling. You will find a great woman. First, create a life, get a job, make an income. Then you will have confidence, and will struggle for a woman, that you will deserve. You just are not ready yet.

Take care!

Answer 6

First of all, you need to realize that your self worth is not dependent on another person's approval. If you can hold your head up and believe that you are a person worth knowing and respecting than you can face what life throws at you. Believe in yourself and rely on yourself. I believe that you have more strength than you realize. It is there inside of you, call on it and you can sustain your sanity, even in tough times.

Second, have you seen a doctor? There are many medications out there that help tremendously with depression. They are not a miracle cure, but they help take the edge off. Depression is also a physiological problem, not just an emotional one.

I wish you well.

Answer 7

Go to emergency at the nearest hospital right now and see a doctor. Tell him exactly what you've expressed in this question. My boyfriend is going through the same thing and before you can get better, you need to alleviate these symptoms first. GO SEE A DOCTOR!!!! Or call a suicide hot-line. But whatever you do, go see a doctor or tell someone close to you about the thought you've been having ... if you tell someone, you're less likely to go through with it. You're not alone!

Answer 8

well first ur focusing on girls too much for ur hapiness is bad when u depend on something that can be lost or taken away. u will get a girl when is time. u cant be running around breaking ur head for girls. or thinking about killing ur self over a girl. think about it lets say u kill ur self for a girl whats the girl gonna do cry a few tears in a few months be allright and have another guy. get something that u like doing to take away ur depression.

Answer 9

Im not affraid to admit that I suffer from depression and I to was thinking like you before. But with the help of my family and friends along with professional help I was able to regain myself and continue on with life. The best thing you can do for yourself is seek prfessional help. I found out that only taking med's doesnt completely help you, but with a combination of professional help and med's you should be able to understand life again and enjoy the things that you used to do with your friends. Best of luck to you and dont let this take over your life.

Answer 10

I feel the same way alot. I take an antidepressant called celexa and go to therapist to talk. A lot of it is stress in this world situation we live in. Trust in God . The answer is not in alchol or drugs. Stay busy.