I really don't know what i want. i fell like crying. I don't like parties. i don't enjoy. i can't tell anyone what i am thinking. coz i don't know. I love my Mom. I love my Bf. i am confused. should i get married with him??? we talk about our future.
He told me. On Eid he don't want me to stay with my mom. he want me to stay with his mom.
i don't know what should i do. i am not saying i want to be happy. but i don't want to be sad.
You can help me. i think. soooooo plzz ans
2006-11-06 10:31:48 · 12 answers · asked by Onnona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You poor girl, you sound so mixed up. Maybe you are a little depressed at the moment for some reason. Ofcourse you love your mum, that's normal. It's entirely up to you who's mum you stay with. You do what's right for you and stop stressing about such a minor thing.I don't think l would even be thinking about marriage until you get your other problems sorted out. It seems to me you have enough issues at the moment without worrying yourself with anymore. Ofcourse you just want to be happy . Doesn't everyone !!! Try talking your concerns over with a good friend, maybe that might help. You certainly sound like you could do with some help at the moment. The only thing wrong with you is you are trying to please everyone,perhaps it is time to worry about yourself for a change and do what's best for you. All the best for a happy future.
2006-11-06 10:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear it sounds like you never think of yourself just other people and I would guess you dont have a whole lot of hobbies, interests or things that characterise you as a person.
it sounds like your lost and need to find yourself befor you can be in a healthy relationship. identify yourself. make yourself happy cause no one else ever can, right now you dont even know what it is that makes you happy so how could anyone ever know for you. tell your bf you need some time to yourself and find yourself.
good luck and ask God for help.
2006-11-06 10:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by InProgress:-) 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOTHING is rong with you.
you just want to be happy.
go with what you think you should do deep down you know it will take time to find it but you will.
if you guys love eachother then do ONLY what feels right.
good luck i hope you find happiness, and true love and a good future.
2006-11-06 10:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice dont go at his mother house if u want to be happy stay with your mom how would your mom feel if u leave her to live with mother in law
2006-11-06 10:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO. do not go with his mom, she can change the way she is with you when you move into her house because it's her house and mother's tend to be jealous. a guy you can find anywhere but you should see your mother come first.
2006-11-06 10:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT??? I CANT UNDERSTAND YOU.
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take a deep breath, drink some water, calm the f*ck down,. and try this again...
you dont have to decide all of this right now. just decide what you want for yourself, not what you "should" do because others think so...
2006-11-06 10:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by sobrien 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seems like your going through a break down.3
meet up with friends
go for a vacation
get your thoughts in orderr.
life will get betterr
2006-11-06 10:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by buddah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps if you wrote more clearly someone could offer advice. It doesn't seem like anyone can tell what your asking.
2006-11-06 10:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by LC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave that boy and find someone that will appreciate you and make you happy.
2006-11-06 10:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help.
2006-11-06 10:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋