Why is she like this towards me?

Question

i have had a g/f for just over a year, and when we chat on the phone, shes like, im gonna go and i say oh dont stay for 5 more mins, then she turns around and says, in a stroppy voice, oh im not even allowed to go to the toilet now, and then i say to why dont you just say you want to go to the toilet, and she says that shes embarrased, and then has a go at me, everytime she does this it akes me lower and lower and i hate it, i just wanna sleep, please help

Answer 1

dump her
start again
life is toooo short for strops

Answer 2

Maybe you should just give her a little more space. If she wants some time to herself now and then, let her. It's only because sometimes people like their own alone time as much as being with someone they love and care about. I often feel like I just want my own time and space, and my girlfriend fully understands and lets me.
If your girlfriend wnats to get off the phone for any reason, just let her. She'll come to you or tell you when she wants to see/speak to you. You don't have to always be there. There is such a thing as having too much of a good thing.
Give her space. Everything will be fine.
Above all, talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Listen to what she has to says. Good relation ships are based on excellent communication, and the ability to listen and adapt now and then.
Good luck

Answer 3

When she says that she is ready to go just let her go.Maybe she is not going to the bathroom everytime she hangs up the phone but a women is never going to tell you every little thing she does.It doesnt mean shes doing something wrong.We all need a little bit of private time every now and then.If you and her talk on the phone all time then of course she wants to hang up the phone fast.Why dont you try hanging up first sometimes.She wont be expecting that and after several times of you doing this she'll beg you to stay on the phone!Trust me!!

Answer 4

You need to ask her whether there's something wrong. You've been together over a year; she shouldn't be embarrassed to tell you she's got to go to the toilet! Maybe she feels that too much of her free time is being spent on the phone with you!

Answer 5

ok first off you need to tell her everything you just told all of us b/c you cant just let her not know how u feel ur relationship will get real bad

and second when she says shes g2g than tell her alright all talk to u later and if she says why didnt u beg me 2 stay on the phone be like b/c u dont like it when i do that and i want to plz u baby

good luck

Answer 6

Lol, You will never figure a girl out so dont try now! We are always finding something to fuss about.. I suggest if making her mad by asking her to stay five more minutes.. Simply ask her to call you back when she feels like talking... If she neglects you then really you should start thinking of other alternatives.

Answer 7

You may not like this answer, but I think this girl does not treat you nice. I think she uses the "tiolet excuse" for an excuse. You two need to talk and see what is up. Life is too short to be not treated nice. Get someone who will treat you nice. It may be hard and may feel bad but in the long run you may meet someone very deserving to you. Good Luck!

Answer 8

she likes being dominate obviously-idk just don't let control issues spin out of control and dont get offended if she needs to go if you want to talk to her longer then just say "can we talk alittle while longer, but if you really need to get off the phone now that's fine, we can just talk later" in a nice voice. if that doesnt work then dump her cause problems will just progress

Answer 9

I'd say you both are on the phone too long talking, when you phone or she does make a rule and a time you must get off the phone and stick with it!

Answer 10

you chat on the phone, you say "don't go, stay another five mins" she gets stroppy, get embarrassed, than has a go, you hate it....but you wanna sleep?????....are you ringing each other late?.....what do YOU want?......who rings first?......if she rings you, and she say's i've got to go let her go!....this avoids a arguement......if you ring her don't keep her on the phone to long, she probably looks on you as being insecure, keep your calls to a minimum and give her space and see how that goes! goodluck

Answer 11

it sounds like you may be boring her and she is unable to tell you, she probably doesn't love you, but also doesn't hate you enough to hurt you. If you are also so tired you need to sleep through the call I can see why she may be bored, try not to call every minute you are apart and then when you do call just say 'I love you' that should be enough.