2006-11-06 10:07:24 · 15 answers · asked by * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple. Love does not hurt...you may be attracted to a person you think you like but it hurts sometime..then it isnt love..he are some thing to consider:Love
1.Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love.
2.Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic.
3.Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.
4.Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself.
If somebody asks you to do something that you don't want to do in order to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love.
5.It is very easy to confuse lust for love.
6.The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction.
7.It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.
8.Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory.
9.Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability.
10.Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated
2006-11-06 10:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by blk_tn_mild 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, love is a need for any human being, and when we have it and then watch it get ripped away from us, it is like having part of us ripped away...
Then again most humans don't fully understand what it is to love, we just think we do...
Anyways, ya love hurts because it is part of us, and if you lost an arm, would that hurt? Love is natural and it hurts to have it taken away.
2006-11-06 10:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Azena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love isn't what hurts us... it's the lack of love that hurts us.
When we're told that we're loved, but shown the opposite, it gives us the feeling of being lied to... & deception hurts.
It hurts not only the heart, but hurts our pride as well, because it makes us feel like we're ignorant fools.
2006-11-06 10:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love isn't supposed 2 hurt ur supposed 2 feel love not hurt or pain if ur askin y love hurts so much u probably don't have love im not sayin dis 2 b mean or anything true love doesn't hurt u will no when u have love
2006-11-06 10:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by JAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a feeling so hard to explain. It hurts because you have held a deep feeling inside your heart.
2006-11-06 10:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love! It doesn't have to hurt. Usually it hurts when its a one side love. When the one you love does not love you.It probably hurts because it really isn't love.
2006-11-06 10:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts because it is the strongest emotion we have other than hate. There is a thin line between the two and love is part of everything you are.
2006-11-06 10:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't hurt...being betrayed hurts...the end of love hurts...someone we love doing something unkind to us, hurts...love itself, is painless.
2006-11-06 10:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to relize ...that life..ain't always gonna be good...be love only hurts when u relize you have to let that person go....love can be a beautiful thing.....
but as my mom told me a few yrs back....people will leave and yes that will be the hardest thing to do is let them leave ....but always someone else comes into ur life...deos'nt matter ..who a new friend girlfriend boyfriend...
just be strong and wait ....the pain will fade....and u'll be able to love again?
2006-11-06 10:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is supposed to be the best feeling in the world right? Well it is but, nothing great ever came easy did it?
2006-11-06 10:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋