cuz i wear this see-trough lacey stuff around my bf and THEY SCREAM i mean were bf+gf and he should have the right to see me partley naked right?
2006-11-06 10:03:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 16 so does that help?
2006-11-06 10:04:39 · update #1
i live in a apt next to my parents so does that count?
2006-11-07 09:29:43 · update #2
Ok. If you're not even old enough to spell LINGERIE correctly, then no. 16 is a bit young to be showing off that sort of stuff to anyone, let alone your b/f.
2006-11-06 10:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's spelled "lingerie" (also check the spellings of "because" "see-through" and "partly" - people will respect your decisions more if you can communicate them properly and clearly)
Your boyfriend has no "right" to see naked - access to your body is a *privilege* you have granted him, and it is *your* decision how far that privilege should extend. However, at 16, you are not yet an adult and your parents are responsible for you, so they do have some say in what you do, especially if you are living in their house.
They scream because they are worried about you, and don't want you to make the same mistakes that they or people they know might have made. Reassure them by letting them know you are in control and *dressing* provocatively does not mean that you *act* promiscuously. Offer a compromise - you can wear lingerie in front of your boyfriend, but only in private, not in public places, or you will only wear it on special occassions.
2006-11-06 18:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO one has the right to see anyone partly naked. If you're doing it to please him, then you lack self respect and need to talk to someone.
If, on the other hand, you can't help yourself and have to dress sexy, then you need to at least show your parents a little respect by not doing it around them.
You and your folks are probably in a tug-of-war at this point, but there are real reasons that you might consider waiting to dress like a sexy woman. It's hard to imagine, but if you want to dress like an adult maybe you need to tone down the level of your back and forth with your parents and try to get them to talk to you about the reasons why they are holding this position. Most folks love a lot better than they communicate.. They're just people. Show them you love them and give them a break.
They'll love you for it.
2006-11-06 18:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are in your parents home you are obliged to follow their rules. If you are in your own place and your parents are not arround its just fine..
2006-11-06 18:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with you.
2006-11-06 18:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋